my boyfriend constantly looks at porn....the thing is, I don't really didn't mind it that much at first, but now it's like he hides it all the time. I can go back and look at all the cookies and see where he's been. When I bring it up, he just laughs, and when it starts to bother me, I keep saying something about him looking at it and he gets mad at me. I don't think I'd be as mad if he wasn't hiding it. I'm just concerned that he's not attracked to me, or I'm doing something that makes him look at it? Trust me, it's not that I'm not giving it up, because I am, more than he wants really. I just need to know if it's just something he needs to look at all the time, or if there is something totally wrong with me? If guys answer this, I would really like to hear your opinion. I've looked at porn myself, but not as much as he does and never hid it.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 14:36 ID:C//srGMG
>>1
I don't see much of a problem as long as he loves you and you have pleasant sex. Some guys can be like that, but that doesn't mean he's cheating or he doesn't like you.
Perhaps he's looking at stuff he doesn't do with you in bed? Try to ask him for his kinkiest desires and do it as long as it's not painful, and he should be a very happy man.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 15:57 ID:6TD025D7
looking at porn is a simple recreation, a bit of fun, a great masturbation aid.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 15:58 ID:w8XVggkv
Are you an adult? Seriously? And on 4chan no less? Come on, by now you should have realized that men love sex, even if it's online stuff. What's actually wrong with that? Like >2 said, online is fantasy. Fantasies are fun, and enjoyable. He can have them, so why not? If an adult can separate fantasy from real life and enjoy online porn then why are you worried about it? (that's if he can).
That's why I think people that have a problem with porn are immature. If you haven't been exposed to it much and all you believe is what christians or whatnot tell you about it, well duh, people are always afraid of what they don't understand, but in this day and age there's no real excuse to be undereducated on the subject (be it porn or anything else).
Grow up. Ask him to be open about it. If you have some high-minded opinions about porn or ANYTHING he won't WANT to share things with you. If YOU act mature, he will be more so as well. See? And if he doesn't, and is just a jackass to you, dump the bastard and get on with your life. If you can't be open and honest in a relationship you're totally wasting your time.
TL;DR: If he thinks you make a big deal out of things, then he will hide it from you.
PS: Get with the times. This is the 21st century. Women thinking "Oh noes! A man does not think about *me* sexually, he loevs super models and/or porn!" is so outdated. My MOM was told that everything was her fault just because she is a woman. Women are not mentally children that need to be led by the hand for goodness sake, you can think for yourself.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:09 ID:Axw/8zr6
I AM A MAN AND I HATE SEX BUT I LOVE MASTURBATION
WOMEN PISS ME OFF AND I REFUSE TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM
IM THE POSTER OF THIS AND I HAVE A SIMPLE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEMS OP
JUST START WATCHING PORN YOURSELF. IF YOUR BOYFRIEND WATCHES PORN WITH FEMALES IN IT AND BEATS OFF TO IT
START WATCHING GAY PORN AND MASTURBATE TO THAT IM SURE GAY PORN TURNS YOU ON
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Thrax2007-07-02 16:12 ID:NQRC4KOd
>>7
You have no right to call me fag. There are rules. Rules you have to abide by, too. Stop calling me names or I have to report you to the FBI.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:14 ID:Axw/8zr6
>>9
fine im sorry
to make up for it i'll let you watch me masturbate to porn naked and allow you to masturbate watching me
i'm really hot and have amazing abs and nice firm pecks and a nice cute yet fairly big penis
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Thrax2007-07-02 16:16 ID:NQRC4KOd
>>10
Apology accepted. And I love to watch you masturbate. XD
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:16 ID:w8XVggkv
>>8
Good idea. Watching gay porn as retaliation for him watching lesbian porn could be an effective way to get rid of him.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:18 ID:Axw/8zr6
>>12
i dont get the big deal
if a guy can watch porn in a relationship why can't a girl?
i wouldn't care if my gf watch porn even though i DONT watch porn
you can't touch me though b/c im straight and like women but dont want to have sex with them
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:21 ID:Axw/8zr6
you know what i really hate
when women make it seem like they are giving themselves up to guys when they have sex in a relationship when they'd like to have it just as much
SO MY SOLUTION TO THIS WAS NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX TILL SHE BEGGED FOR IT AND IT WORKED BUT IT WAS FUNNY
ok i wont lie this is making me really hot now although you're a guy which is weird
WHAT IS GOING ON
WHY AM I SEDUCED BY YOU OVER THE INTERNET
YOU BETTER BE HOT BUDDY
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Anonymous2007-07-02 16:50 ID:w8XVggkv
>>13
I meant openly and LOUDLY watching gay porn, heh.
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Anonymous2007-07-02 17:02 ID:Axw/8zr6
>>19
not that i enjoy gay porn but the thought of my gf being a horny chick faping to it turns me on
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Anonymous2007-07-02 17:16 ID:w8XVggkv
>>20
I can just picture that, walking in on her: "What's all the commotion in here? It sounds like you're enjoying yourself to... Oh? What's this? Anal sex, awesome! What porn is this? Wow, she has a hot a--OH GOD NO!"