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Boyfriend chooses Porn over me... !

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 13:44 ID:PCXUUz3x

Myself making a post about this is a last resource, Its a personal problem that I dont feel comfortable telling close friends or family, so maybe you strangers can give me some advice.
My Boyfriend of over 1 year , watches alot of porn behind my back, it wouldnt be a big deal to me if we were having more sex but we arent, I know the days when he watches it because at night hes " too tired", I always find it on his computer on these days, I have tried to speak wtih him about it, I told him I dont like porn but if he wants to watch it thats okay, but please to not let it affect our sex life, because I feel like he is chosing porn over me, and it hurts me to know he gets off on complete strangers rather than the girl he is suppose to love and make love to. Before I knew about the porn I thought theyre was something wrong with me Maybe Im fat or something, not pretty enough and that our relationship was coming to an end my friends think hes a jerk say Im beautiful and hes not worth it. He knew I felt this way and instead of admitting he was watching porn he continued to let me feel like it was my own fault.
Eventually we wound up breaking up over it, and he told me he never told me about the porn because he knew I didnt like it Im too conservative and I have a "shell" not true trust me Im a freak I like to do everything in bed. We got back together and talked about things, but I found out 2 day back into our relationship..hes back at it again. Is this a big enough deal to leave him? Should I put up with it?
We love each other very much but I want to come before porn and I dont know if he will ever stop. I also think his need to watch porn is a sign of future infidelity. He wants to buy a home with me out of state soon, Im afraid to leave all my friends and family if he continues this. Help me do I stay do I go do I try and talk to him? Do any of you guys out there watch porn behind your g/fs back, but you still love and want her? Im so confused.- Anonymous

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 13:46 ID:DWuA5z/n

DICKFLAPS

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 14:13 ID:5UkIQw2L

>>1
I removed all my porn when I got gf. Howerer that felt stupid decision after she left me. I sure missed my great collection. :<

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 14:14 ID:Heaven

>>3
you're GF left you? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
F*ucking loser.

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 14:17 ID:2XEuMcgb

>>4
daily rage

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 14:31 ID:Wt9jSpIa

>>1
Some men just need our share of porn to fap to, but it's not really cheating. You can enjoy porn as well, and it won't be cheating. It shouldn't be an issue as long as it doesn't prevent you from having a healthy relationship full of sex and awesomeness. IF he doesn't want to have sex with you, then it's a problem — he's probably a fag (considering you said you do everything in bed, that's every man's dream and any man should be happy with that), but if you can have sex, then I suggest you ignore how he faps when you're not around; it harms no one and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you or he doesn't enjoy your sex. Like I said it's great that you do everything in bed, every girl should. Your boyfriend is lucky so tell him to behave or this Anonymous will kick his ass.

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 16:36 ID:BwEV7pVX

We love each other very much
but I want to come before porn and I dont know if he will ever stop.
I also think his need to watch porn is a sign of future infidelity.
Repoasting your own words so you can see where you went wrong.

Also, I'll explain it for you since you seem to be lacking in common sense. Take this as a wake up call before it's too late, please.

A guy who makes excuses NOT to have sex is either A. COMPLETELY FREAKIN INSANE, or B. not actually interested in your and therefore could not possibly "love" you. A guy can't choose porn over his girlfriend if he loves her. Come on, that's obvious. But he can enjoy both. Keyword: "both."

"I don't know if he will ever stop" so... you'd buy a home with a guy you don't trust? Sounds like a smart idea to me.

"Future infidelity"? Come on. He's a man. In this day and age what do you expect a man or even a woman to do if the relationship is NOT what they really want? He's already not very interested from the sounds of it.
Keeping something you don't want, and that doesn't really care much about you is really quite stupid. It's lose-lose.

Oh, and if you think when anyone says "I love you" but never backs it up with actions really means it, you'd better check your birthdate. I'm guessing you were born sometime after 1993 to be so naive.

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 17:00 ID:k3oPpRKa

>>6
THAT IS NOT EVERY MAN'S FANTASY
MINE IS TO NOT HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 17:08 ID:8ZLe4y7M

how old are you everyman watches porn even nif they have a gf

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 17:10 ID:BwEV7pVX

>>8
GAYS DON'T COUNT AS "MEN."

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 18:47 ID:Wt9jSpIa

>>8
But you are a faggot with a small penis.

Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 20:00 ID:eenpxv9d

I'm a mormon. I make porn with my 8 wives...

Name: :( 2013-03-17 1:50

I'm an annoying newfag piece of shit!

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