Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 13:44 ID:PCXUUz3x
Myself making a post about this is a last resource, Its a personal problem that I dont feel comfortable telling close friends or family, so maybe you strangers can give me some advice.
My Boyfriend of over 1 year , watches alot of porn behind my back, it wouldnt be a big deal to me if we were having more sex but we arent, I know the days when he watches it because at night hes " too tired", I always find it on his computer on these days, I have tried to speak wtih him about it, I told him I dont like porn but if he wants to watch it thats okay, but please to not let it affect our sex life, because I feel like he is chosing porn over me, and it hurts me to know he gets off on complete strangers rather than the girl he is suppose to love and make love to. Before I knew about the porn I thought theyre was something wrong with me Maybe Im fat or something, not pretty enough and that our relationship was coming to an end my friends think hes a jerk say Im beautiful and hes not worth it. He knew I felt this way and instead of admitting he was watching porn he continued to let me feel like it was my own fault.
Eventually we wound up breaking up over it, and he told me he never told me about the porn because he knew I didnt like it Im too conservative and I have a "shell" not true trust me Im a freak I like to do everything in bed. We got back together and talked about things, but I found out 2 day back into our relationship..hes back at it again. Is this a big enough deal to leave him? Should I put up with it?
We love each other very much but I want to come before porn and I dont know if he will ever stop. I also think his need to watch porn is a sign of future infidelity. He wants to buy a home with me out of state soon, Im afraid to leave all my friends and family if he continues this. Help me do I stay do I go do I try and talk to him? Do any of you guys out there watch porn behind your g/fs back, but you still love and want her? Im so confused.- Anonymous
My Boyfriend of over 1 year , watches alot of porn behind my back, it wouldnt be a big deal to me if we were having more sex but we arent, I know the days when he watches it because at night hes " too tired", I always find it on his computer on these days, I have tried to speak wtih him about it, I told him I dont like porn but if he wants to watch it thats okay, but please to not let it affect our sex life, because I feel like he is chosing porn over me, and it hurts me to know he gets off on complete strangers rather than the girl he is suppose to love and make love to. Before I knew about the porn I thought theyre was something wrong with me Maybe Im fat or something, not pretty enough and that our relationship was coming to an end my friends think hes a jerk say Im beautiful and hes not worth it. He knew I felt this way and instead of admitting he was watching porn he continued to let me feel like it was my own fault.
Eventually we wound up breaking up over it, and he told me he never told me about the porn because he knew I didnt like it Im too conservative and I have a "shell" not true trust me Im a freak I like to do everything in bed. We got back together and talked about things, but I found out 2 day back into our relationship..hes back at it again. Is this a big enough deal to leave him? Should I put up with it?
We love each other very much but I want to come before porn and I dont know if he will ever stop. I also think his need to watch porn is a sign of future infidelity. He wants to buy a home with me out of state soon, Im afraid to leave all my friends and family if he continues this. Help me do I stay do I go do I try and talk to him? Do any of you guys out there watch porn behind your g/fs back, but you still love and want her? Im so confused.- Anonymous