Name: blackbelt2k 2007-07-02 13:37 ID:jlTZBl2g
Had a date this weekend...First a backdrop..we're in altantic city; there was a jimmy buffet concert, so you know everyone was getting drunk (not that i was going to the concert, i found out when i went there), so me and my date just sat at a bar on the beach for a few hours..(my suggestion, to break the ice).. Heres what i noticed/learned on my date:
1)her playing her hair, bumping into, etc.
2) Being social helped ALOT. She left to go to the bathroom, and while she was gone, these women who were at the bar, struck up a convo with me..(asking me what yuengling tastes like).. so i know they were just approching me, but instead of flirting, i just remained social..so my date gets back, and BAM!! wraps her arms around me and pulls me in for a kiss..(i hear the other women, say goodbye, lol)..then my date sits down and makes a comment about me not really seeming to miss her, and asking what the women were asking me about..
3) I chose not to care what my date wanted to do, and instead did whatever i wanted to make the night fun for me.. i danced, with and without her. I would take her hand and lead her around.. i kissed her when I WANTED to.
4) A few times, we were in private i took the oppertunity to show off my new gym strenght by picking her up and slamming her genltly against a wall or something for a hot makeout session.
thats, it for now, so what did i learn? PAY ATTENTION BE SOCIAL WITH EVERYONE, BE RELAXED AND ENJOY YOURSELF (don't try to make her happy, you being happy will in turn make her mood change), and SHOW HER YOUR A MAN BY TAKING CHARGE...well thats what i learned from my date, hope that helps you brothers
1)her playing her hair, bumping into, etc.
2) Being social helped ALOT. She left to go to the bathroom, and while she was gone, these women who were at the bar, struck up a convo with me..(asking me what yuengling tastes like).. so i know they were just approching me, but instead of flirting, i just remained social..so my date gets back, and BAM!! wraps her arms around me and pulls me in for a kiss..(i hear the other women, say goodbye, lol)..then my date sits down and makes a comment about me not really seeming to miss her, and asking what the women were asking me about..
3) I chose not to care what my date wanted to do, and instead did whatever i wanted to make the night fun for me.. i danced, with and without her. I would take her hand and lead her around.. i kissed her when I WANTED to.
4) A few times, we were in private i took the oppertunity to show off my new gym strenght by picking her up and slamming her genltly against a wall or something for a hot makeout session.
thats, it for now, so what did i learn? PAY ATTENTION BE SOCIAL WITH EVERYONE, BE RELAXED AND ENJOY YOURSELF (don't try to make her happy, you being happy will in turn make her mood change), and SHOW HER YOUR A MAN BY TAKING CHARGE...well thats what i learned from my date, hope that helps you brothers