Im a 10th grader in highschool, and still am not allowed to go on dates. My social skills are extremely horrible. i dont know how to act in what situations. I dont have great conversations with anyone. I dont think i had a conversation going for more than a minute long with somone except with 1 or 2 guy friends talking about basketball. But when talking about basketball is gone through, i just sit there in the cafeteria all quiet, nothing to talk about.
I can never think of anything to talk about, and when i do once in a blue moon, i make is sound boring, and no one responds. anyone who actually comes over to talk is about them needing HW help or somthing. In 6th grade i got addicted to this computer game, i would come home from school play til 11pm then do hw for 30 mins then go to sleep. So me being obsessed stopped me from going to places, meeting ppl, befriending with others, etc for about 3 years. yeah, at the end of 9th grade i actually noticed somthin wwas wrong. i had no friends other than 4 people who i knew since 3rd grade. Im in 10th grade, i had to move, can you guys please help me? Make friends, not seem boring, when i try to say something to a girl, or a guy, i always seem to bore them, maybe its the way i say things? i have no conversation skills, my speech skills are horrible. Because i stutter alot. can someone help mee? id appreciate it
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Anonymous2007-06-30 20:34 ID:o+YCuWz0
You being into sports already puts you above most of 4chan.
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Anonymous2007-06-30 21:10 ID:BcT2NQF8
sports is lame - only for kids and retarded adults (factory workers, laborers, you know the type). People who are into sports often are simpletons in many respects.
As far as 'friends' go, don't worry about it. 99% of the people you see in highschool end up crashing and burning by the time they are in their mid twenties. You won't have the same friends when you are 25 that you did when you are 15.
Trust me, just worry about getting an education for now, plan your future, decide what you want to do career-wise, and stop worrying about social bullshit. Once you get out of school, it will all fade into a distant memory, you will be out on your own, possibly in a new city if your career path warrants it, and then everything will fall into place naturally, including a social life if that's something you really want.
And don't worry about your social skills, they will develop naturally. Once you're done with school, you'll wonder why you ever gave a crap anyways.
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Anonymous2007-06-30 21:15 ID:1V0IM6tY
UNDERAGE B7
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Anonymous2007-06-30 23:32 ID:bWu2EyZg
you is becoming a man. A man don't need no friends
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Anonymous2007-06-30 23:41 ID:jaJ+ix3Y
get a girlfriend...you should be able to go on dates...
ehh. live with it. Im not trying to be mean. I rarely go outside, I have 1 friend who doesent treat me like shit. and ive never held a girls hand.
I think people suck and they should all die. thats my view on life.
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internet_lover2007-07-01 1:27 ID:Lxx964u9
you're young.
start bodybuilding. by the time you're 21 you will be huge. and you will pretty much be a prime dating target for hot bitches.
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Anonymous2007-07-01 2:29 ID:gXDU+KM1
give up gaming....
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Anonymous2007-07-01 2:32 ID:gXDU+KM1
^ sorry /v/ i didn't mean that.... just tried to help him...
use your friends as bridges like going to partys with them etc