Name: Anonymous 2007-06-20 5:45 ID:9+9jN+Yk
I have always been confident around women. I don't care what they think and I act like I want to, so long as it is merely a social situation. As such, I've never had a problem getting a girl to like me in the first place.
However, when I start actually going out with someone, I get scared of physical intimacy. Like my girlfriend right now.....I just kept not doing anything physical until one day she just grabbed my hand when we were in the movies and put my arm around her. Is this bad if she initiates that? Now I'm comfortable holding hands and stuff....but, we were chilling at my house today, I lay down, and she comes and lays down with my arm around her...like, very close.
So, how can I get the confidence to actually initiate this stuff? I haven't even kissed her yet, because I am nervous to. The thing is, I'm not nervous of what she would think or anything, I'm just......nervous.
Thanks for any help!
P.S--If she did that stuff, do you think she'd like me to kiss her?
However, when I start actually going out with someone, I get scared of physical intimacy. Like my girlfriend right now.....I just kept not doing anything physical until one day she just grabbed my hand when we were in the movies and put my arm around her. Is this bad if she initiates that? Now I'm comfortable holding hands and stuff....but, we were chilling at my house today, I lay down, and she comes and lays down with my arm around her...like, very close.
So, how can I get the confidence to actually initiate this stuff? I haven't even kissed her yet, because I am nervous to. The thing is, I'm not nervous of what she would think or anything, I'm just......nervous.
Thanks for any help!
P.S--If she did that stuff, do you think she'd like me to kiss her?