Name: Anonymous 2007-06-17 3:14 ID:WWAu07jf
My 30's have started and now I'm not so sure where a woman would fit into my life.
I have gotten to a point in my life where my sex drive is no longer an albatros around my neck. It's manageable now and not nearly as inconvenient as it once was. So having a woman around for sex is something I can largely live without.
From the time when I first started thinking about girls I always imagined them as fufilling a companionship role for me. Someone to be my partner who I could share my life with. Yes I know how sappy that sounds, but having a best friend who I can pal-around with and enjoy a hot fvck with sounds good to me. As I have more experience now with women in relationships and women as friends I must say - they make horrible companions. It is to my utter sadness that I must now say that expecting companionship from a woman is just asking too much from them.
Without a woman I can't have children, and I would want any children of mine to have a good mother. One day I would like to have children, but not this year. Mid to late 30's would be best for me. So I don't need a woman right now to knock her up.
These are the roles I've see women as fufilling in my life and I've gotten to the point where two of those three either aren't a big deal anymore or I just don't think is possable.
So I'm feeling a bit lost and I was hoping maybe some man with more expereince could perhaps tell me what I'm missing here. Maybe a different perspective or just something I'm not seeing. Because honestly, if things keep up like this - I'm not sure that a woman will ever have a place in my life again.
I have gotten to a point in my life where my sex drive is no longer an albatros around my neck. It's manageable now and not nearly as inconvenient as it once was. So having a woman around for sex is something I can largely live without.
From the time when I first started thinking about girls I always imagined them as fufilling a companionship role for me. Someone to be my partner who I could share my life with. Yes I know how sappy that sounds, but having a best friend who I can pal-around with and enjoy a hot fvck with sounds good to me. As I have more experience now with women in relationships and women as friends I must say - they make horrible companions. It is to my utter sadness that I must now say that expecting companionship from a woman is just asking too much from them.
Without a woman I can't have children, and I would want any children of mine to have a good mother. One day I would like to have children, but not this year. Mid to late 30's would be best for me. So I don't need a woman right now to knock her up.
These are the roles I've see women as fufilling in my life and I've gotten to the point where two of those three either aren't a big deal anymore or I just don't think is possable.
So I'm feeling a bit lost and I was hoping maybe some man with more expereince could perhaps tell me what I'm missing here. Maybe a different perspective or just something I'm not seeing. Because honestly, if things keep up like this - I'm not sure that a woman will ever have a place in my life again.