Name: Anonymous 2007-06-16 8:33 ID:wi8m9tGg
I'm in a realtionship for 10 months right now.
Some months ago I started to think about my current relationship and also thought about leaving her.
Pro: She is a very nice girl, would never cheat on me, has lots of time for me.
Contra: I doubt that I love her like she loves me. She needs way too much of my time, Sexual attraction is low (I think that's normal after taht period), The time i spend with her (and that's a lot) seems sometimes a bit wasted to me in the past. I miss my freedom to do want I want.
The problems with leaving her are: She would be crying for ages and I'm afraid to hurt her so much, she is/was always there for me and I am very afraid of being lonely, some of my friends left town so there are only few people left I would like to spend all my spare time with, I often spend too much time in front of my PC if nobody kicks my a$$.
Theres no other way than to try it without her and see if I feel better.
I'm afraid of sitting here in my room and nobody is calling or listening, but keeping here wont solve this problem....I guess.
I just posted it here because I never really know what I want and I could regret my decision.
PS: I hope my english is readable
Some months ago I started to think about my current relationship and also thought about leaving her.
Pro: She is a very nice girl, would never cheat on me, has lots of time for me.
Contra: I doubt that I love her like she loves me. She needs way too much of my time, Sexual attraction is low (I think that's normal after taht period), The time i spend with her (and that's a lot) seems sometimes a bit wasted to me in the past. I miss my freedom to do want I want.
The problems with leaving her are: She would be crying for ages and I'm afraid to hurt her so much, she is/was always there for me and I am very afraid of being lonely, some of my friends left town so there are only few people left I would like to spend all my spare time with, I often spend too much time in front of my PC if nobody kicks my a$$.
Theres no other way than to try it without her and see if I feel better.
I'm afraid of sitting here in my room and nobody is calling or listening, but keeping here wont solve this problem....I guess.
I just posted it here because I never really know what I want and I could regret my decision.
PS: I hope my english is readable