Name: Anonymous 2007-04-20 7:24 ID:dA+DxGFP
One day, I realized that I don’t ever have to show off anything to anyone. Rather, I learned that it’s better when other people brag for me. It’s such a fuking chore to try to prove to someone that you’re great. It’s a lot easier when you just show it. That was the first thing I did in life. I stopped talking about it. I just did it, instead.
One day, I realized that I didn’t have to show off and buy things to show that I was this rich guy…. I began to realize that I was attracting the wrong type of women. Every one of these women who just looked at my money was just looking at my money and not me.
One day, I wisened up. I realized that I DON’T have to get a woman like that. I learned that I’d rather have a woman like me for who I am. For who I am. And if she doesn’t like the fact that I don’t throw down on cash, then fuk her! I just saved myself a lot of heartache and cash. Why should I show off that I have a nice house and a nice car? Who gives a fuk? Nah, I’d rather go for something meaningful. A girl who likes me for who I am. I stopped throwing cash on dates and such, because I realized I’d rather go for that down-to-earth girl than some hoe who just wanted my money. I don’t have to prove anything to no one.
One day, I realized that I don’t have to act like someone who’s “cool”. When I was younger, I would follow these “cool” people because I wanted other people to think that I was popular and cool. And as I grew older, I realized that high school and all that is a fuking joke. This ain’t high school no more. I could give two shyts about what that guy does. I just focus on myself and my own game. I changed my whole mindset. Rather than trying to hang out with these guys to make myself look cooler……I LEARNED FROM THEM. I would sit back and watch and observe them. I got sick and tired of putting up this image. I got sick and tired of trying to show this image that I was “this” and “that”. Instead, I stopped caring. I changed my whole perspective. Rather than looking at these popular guys to “increase my social proof”….I started to look at them as teachers. I watched them. I observed. And when I approached things this way, I learned. I learned from them. And then one day, I realized that I didn’t have to act like I was popular anymore. It was because….I BECAME popular. I WAS WITH THEM ALL THE TIME…and so in time…I BECAME them Then, one day my life just got a slap in the face because I realized that I had to change myself. And by changing myself, I would change my thoughts. And by changing my thoughts, I would remove that insecurity.Life is a fuking joke. It takes 365 days to develop jealousy and insecurity...all you gotta do is flip the game. Flip it around. Just as easy as someone absorbs everything that makes him insecure, you gotta flip it. Make it 365 days of developing security and SECURE THOUGHTS till it becomes your good nasty habit. Make a new habit.