the love of my life has spurned me.

WHAT A FUCKIN DRAG!!!

advise me, 4chan! do i try to ignore it?

Just move on

Spurned isnt a word moran.

How was your "Love of your life Feeling yesterday, or the day before that.. or the month before that.. or maybe a year ago?"

Do you ever give your lover the attention that he deserves. Perhaps the love and comfort that he now seeks in another woman who will listen and even share her expirences, Etc etc. whatever... you know how the game is

I can't advise anything without knowing enough details.

Moran! lol. Spurned is a word!

The attention that "he" deserves? You assumed the OP is a girl!?

>>6
LOL. Not it is not, i checked. That is not a proper term, i would be caught dead saying it at least.

HUFF RAID.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/spurned

he thought you said spermed

>>1
If you truly love that woman kouyama mitsuki-chan, then tell her she is your favorite and I'm sure she'll understand.

>>12
I TELL HER ALL THE TIME

>>13
Then forget about her and find someone who appreciates you?

TELL HER ABOUT IT. TELL HER EVERYTHING YOU FEEL. GIVE HER EVERY REASON TO ACCEPT THAT YOU'RE FOR REAL.

OP here. i am a girl and i pretty much told this guy (we hung out a lot and did stuff together) that i liked him and that i would even sleep with him (no strings attached) but he wasn't interested. also i am not at all unattractive, i'm slender, well dressed, have long hair.. i have had a bunch of guys (5 or 6 normal dudes) chase me and randoms telling me they want to fuck me in clubs but i didn't like any of them. why the fuck do i have utter fucking bores interested in me, but the one i want turns away? ah, isn't life so pathetic!

oh yeah also i have good skin. i get compliments on it.

of course.. deep down i already know the answer. he's the same as me -- probably in love with someone else.

   1.  To reject disdainfully or contemptuously; scorn. See synonyms at refuse1.
   2. To kick at or tread on disdainfully.

^LMFAO YOU MUST BE SO *EMBARRASSED*

^Hey I bet he is embarrassed, but that's no way to treat him.
Instead why not offer him enticing bathsalts and oils...perhaps a lubricant of his choice...perhaps a warm bed with a warm friend to cuddle up against, grinding your ass against his cold, rejected cock until the warmth of friendship returns...allowing him to penetrate your lightly furred asshole and relieve himself of all the pain he's been through...in a man's asshole.

why the im stoned. ;)

What happened?

>>16
He's already interested in someone then or likes not fucking either you or anyone, or maybe he just doesn't like you because he thinks you're too sexual also known as a whore, now continue to be curious as to why you only attract guys you find boring and why the only guy you can't have is the only one you think is interesting.

You could always ask him to tell you why, and try to get him to leave it as bluntly as possible or he'll say something false to try and spare your feelings or some stupid bullshit, have fun.

>>22
i'm not a whore. i haven't even kissed a guy, and frankly i don't care if i never do. but i like this one, and if there were ever a time to give out free love, it would be with him. and only him.

also there is probably no reason except that life is a huge, lame joke where people obsess over the exact people they simply cannot ever have. i mean it would just be too fucking convenient for mutual interest to exist in my life.

>>23
so what you are saying is that your never going to want this to happen with the man you are in love with.

.

>>24
i'm sorry, i honestly don't understand what you're asking.

Maybe your just too lame and boring. And as a result hes probably starting a relationship with someones else, and moving on like he was told.

and shes super hot

>>27
i don't think i'm lame or boring. when people get to know me, they tell me i'm hilarious and crazy. i'm a decent to good conversationalist when i'm not tired or fatigued. but i suppose everything is subjective. perhaps he doesn't find me that interesting, but he certainly did before when we hung out ever 1-2 days. i don't think in terms of empirical lame+boringness.. it's all about how you get along with someone.

>>29
I bet you dont hang out anymore. Hence hes probably learned to move on.

it's only been a week since i last saw him, and maybe you're right, he might not want to see me now that i told him i see him that way.

anyway thanks for talking to me anonymous. i just had to vent my woes.

>>32
i can tell by your attitude you suck.

Maybe if you wernt so succk!. And had more kewl.. you would still be together

Turn down the suck, Turn up the kewl.

>>23
>i'm not a whore.
Sure, and even then, you most likely have yet to prove that to him.

>i haven't even kissed a guy, and frankly i don't care if i never do. but i like this one, and if there were ever a time to give out free love, it would be with him. and only him.
Well then bide your time and wait for when he decides he wants it, if he ever does, or you can try and bug him and get him to say why he doesn't want you, just be prepared for the worst.

>also there is probably no reason except that life is a huge, lame joke where people obsess over the exact people they simply cannot ever have. i mean it would just be too fucking convenient for mutual interest to exist in my life.
Now you're starting to get it.

>>27
Most likely case. For the op, you'll have to either change how you act around him or never see him again and move on, everyone has to move on from someone they never get to be with, it is a joyous thing that makes people into individuals.

>>29
>i don't think i'm lame or boring.
So? Is it about what you think or he thinks?

>when people get to know me,
Maybe too many people know you for his taste.

>they tell me i'm hilarious and crazy.
Oh aren't you just critically acclaimed, maybe he doesn't like people who people gather around? I know that I am the exact same way.

>i'm a decent to good conversationalist when i'm not tired or fatigued.
Being able to talk is one thing, being able to talk about things that are actually interesting is an entire other world, and at this point it seems its a world you've never been to, his world.

>but i suppose everything is subjective. perhaps he doesn't find me that interesting, but he certainly did before when we hung out ever 1-2 days.
Maybe he was just humoring you or being a nice socialite or maybe he does that to everyone and that you really weren't anything all that special but that you just misread him.

>i don't think in terms of empirical lame+boringness.. it's all about how you get along with someone.
Yeah but how you perceive getting alone with a person and how they perceive it are two vastly different things.

>>31
Did you tell him that he's the only one you've ever wanted? Did you sing some VU to him? Something off the self titled preferably, or loaded, & nico has some good ones, if you didn't then you probably aren't cool enough to be with him anyways.

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