>>37
I go to /b/ /h/ /y/ and /gif/ mostly, but I also go to /a/ /c/ /cm/ /co/ /d/ /e/ and /u/.
Also, it was an online bra size thing, you put in the measurements and it tells you what size you need. The one I need said that I don't even need a bra. I assumed it was because my chest is able to support my breasts without the strain, which is why you need to wear a bra anyway. I figured it must be that, or just bullshit.
Sometimes being longer isn't so good, as it can be painful for women and you probably won't get as much pleasure since you can't fit all the way inside. But it's different for all women I'd say, some might have a huge cock fetish, whilst others might even have a fetish for wider ones. I suppose it's not such a big problem having a long dick when you do anal sex, since there's more room that just a vagina. But I personally am fine with an average size penis, if I had to choose between length of girth, I'd just go with length, since I can see more enjoyment coming from that. You're able to reach deeper inside, be it vaginal or anal sex.
And finally, I'm not sure. I think it pretty much depends on the woman in question. Some girls might think the idea of having a threesome with another girl, or something along those lines to be a great idea, whereas others might be insulted by you asking, thinking they're not enough for you. But if you talk to her about it and let her know it's something you thought about because of the fact she's bisexual, and might enjoy something involving another woman, then she probably wouldn't get insulted. But again, everyone's different, I suppose it all depends on her. I think the best thing to do is just talk about the things she likes and if she has any ideas of her own about things like that. Since it really depends on the person in question, the easiest way to find things out is just asking about it. =3
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Anonymous2007-01-09 16:39
BUMP!
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ryan2007-01-09 16:39
...orly.
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Anonymous2007-01-09 17:46
Wow Bleh, you still go to all those hentai channels? I used to be a fiend for that stuff, but it all looks the same to me now. I just casually troll /lounge/ and /b/, and look at /ck/, /cgl/, and /t/ once in a while these days. Well, your penis comments have made me feel alot better, since I'm average girth but above average length (not freakishly so, but I always heard that women preferred girth to length, so it made me a little nervous...)
>>42
Thank you once again. I find girls on the net to be a little more honest and open than the ones I know in real life. They tend to be either vulgar and whorish, or totally shy and repressed. Either way their opinions seem kinda tainted to one extreme or the other. While I could be happy with someone who is shy and doesn't think much of sex, I still think I need to be more aware of the details for other women who are open to it. Call it being prepared for whoever I might end up with.
The reason I asked about the length thing is because I don't know any real use for going deep. But if there was something there that women liked I would try it more (especially since fingers can't go that deep). The only thing I heard of is about the cervix but most women don't want you to go that far in.
I know one girl who says she likes "large" men and going deeper, but that isn't very specific, and I don't think I should just go up and ask her. I'm wondering if there's some kinda technique I haven't heard about yet.
About girls who are bi, I didn't really mean about sex. I don't usually discuss it much until we're very close, but about other things, like emotionally, do women who have a physical attraction to other women and therefore have other "girlfriends" also look for feminine traits in potential partners? That's what I mean about being bi. Does it affect your attitude towards which partners you'd choose for dating and marriage? Or do you personally still see guys as guys and only expect them to be guys?
If that isn't too clear, maybe I can put it this way, since I haven't got a clear view yet from other women on this subject. If you are bi, does that mean you could settle down with a man or woman? And if so, what could a man do to help this person feel she is getting what she might want from either gender so that she isn't left wanting? Be more emotionally open? Like watching sad movies and love stories? Be more fashion oriented? Haha, well I hope that last one isn't true. But your thoughts on this would be much appreciated. I'm sure the guys around here will meet some bi girls in the future and could learn from it.
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Bleh2007-01-10 15:26
Oh, well, when it comes to the emotional side of things I suppose it's again really all about personal preferences.
There is that cliché of all women wanting a guy who's really open emotioanlly and watching sad movies with her and cries and tells her everything, but it really does depend on what you like.
After all, it can't be true that all women want a sensitive guy, since so many like the "bad boy" type. Personally being bisexual doesn't really make me look for a more feminine guy or more masculine girl, I sort of just look for what I like in people in general.
I'm quite interested in psychology and try to be open about my feelings because I think that's the only real way to actually solve things, so I would like a guy that was able to talk about how he feels and things, but if I found a guy I really liked who didn't like talking about things, then I think I'd be okay about it, I suppose depending on how much I liked him. If I really thought that the relationship wouldn't work because he wouldn't talk things out, then it would come down to whether I cared enough about him to find a way to get through it. Maybe the fact that I'm bisexual does have something to do with that, but I think my want of someone to talk openly about their feelings is more from logical thinking about working out problems, not so much to do with gender and the fact that women tend to be more open about things anyway.
To be honest I've never really thought about it that much, I'm attracted to both types of men and women, and it more depends on them as a whole to me really. But it does seem quite likely that a bisexual woman, especially one who has been in relationships with women, might need a more emotionally open relationship, and would enjoy talking about things more. Most women in general do like to talk about feelings, which I suppose is where the cliché of wanting a man who is just as open about things comes from. But it really does depend upon the woman in question. She herself might be mor inclined to not want to talk about emotions and things like that in a relationship, and even if she is, she might just expect that sort of thing more from women than men, and as you said, just see guys as guys.
Just as I said with the sex, if you want to know things for sure, I guess the best thing to do is ask about things. If you know what sort of things she might feel are lacking in a relationship, due to her bisexuality or even having nothing to do with it, you'll know better how to satisfy her in the relationship.
I'm glad to be of help! =D
>>55
Great, now all you need to do is somehow enlighten the masses of other guys on the interweb. They really can benefit from the experience of real wimminz, not just fake ones. (I'm learning how to spot them a mile away now).
About all of that though, in short, I just can't find enough women who are open and honest enough to really say what they mean and feel. That's why I ask so many questions (plus the wider my experience the better, right?) For some reason it's still hard to get it out of them, even though they say guys are the ones who never open up.
I suppose the anonymity of the net helps, but if you're like this in real life it'd be nice to know someone like you. Open communication makes things soo much easier, it's just that women seem to get stuck in the idea of being either the "hot and sexy bad girl" or "clean and pure" which often equals totally repressed and "Men are bad!" (they think that even about the nice guys, weird huh?)
I'm glad you use the approach you do towards life. Like you said, being open about your feelings is the way to actually solve problems.
Honesty, people, it gets ya everywhere. I mean, it's fantastic for getting you in trouble, of course, haha! And it can even get you back out of trouble too.
>>64
I like those. Anyone have one I can borrow for a while?
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Anonymous2007-01-14 0:28
*meow*
cats are so cute
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Bleh2007-01-14 14:15
>>59
Thank you. I've always thought that honesty really is best. Lies just get you nowhere really, and they just lead to more and more lies, and that ends up in a terrible mess. I'm not saying the occasional white lie is a bad thing, sometimes it's the best option so not to hurt someone's feelings, but I do like to be as honest as possible. It just makes things easier, and people find it easier to talk to you too. ;]
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Anonymous2007-01-14 14:21
(^v-v^)
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Anonymous2007-01-14 19:37
Honest girls rule. Honest men... eh, not so great. They always end up alone after the first date.
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Anonymous2007-01-15 19:05
>>36
you're obviously a flaming homosexual in denial. fag
ok change of subject to get things flowing...
this is wen my brain is at its fullest... at the momnernt im in germany for an xchange program rite.... n everyday i get pissed of mah tits at school coz i can and ummm i am right now.. sad thing is, at the moment im in a computing class and this german teacher is the msost attractive thing ive seen for two months (other than mahself) anf and and like i forget
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SINDJ2007-01-16 2:20
oh yea i remember.. this teacher i lust seyual facors from looks like wheres wally.... my alltime favariti character thing... i shud make a new blog for this eh