19 and 13 year old...

Long story short.. I am 19, she is 13. There is nothing malicious about our relationship, we are both attracted to each other and I don't intend to take advantage or have sex with her.

What will other people think if we have an open relationship? Especially since she's my friend's sister and I know their parents and they know everyone I know etc.. How should we go about our relationship? If I took her and her friends out frequently and to dinner for 2 what would people think?

Discuss.

Hit it.

>>1

you run the risk of being labbed a pedophile

a freind of mine at 13 was dating someone her age, she and him fucked, she got pregnant, he got labbed a you know what

she was a nice girl too we used to chat on the way to school and stuff, she told me she still loved him and stuff, shes with him even now

someone your age*

Too much of an age gap imo. Is she even mature?

They'd think you're a pedo and they'd spurn you and try to keep her away from you. If you can get away with some lolisex, it would all be worth it though... even if you don't get away with it.

but the real question is, does she look 13? if she does it's worth it, if not what is the point

I think that is hot, if she agrees to a secret relationship with you it would be extra win.

is it legal there?

if it is then well who's gonna stop you

i can understand physical attraction, but i just don't see how a 19 year old can relate to a 13 year old
ain't my life though

wait 'til you're 30...then fight-o!...nyoro~

Source: http://www.cbc.ca/canada/story/2006/05/04/family-murdered.html?ref=rss

May 5, 2006 | 4:27 AM ET
CBC News

Police have arrested a third suspect in connection with a triple homicide last month in Medicine Hat, Alta.

Kacy Lancaster, 19, of Medicine Hat is charged with being an accessory after the fact to murder.

Lancaster was arrested Wednesday and appeared in court on Thursday morning, when she was remanded in custody. She will be back in court May 11 for a bail hearing.

A Medicine Hat couple and their eight-year-old son were found slain in their home on April 23.

Their 12-year-old daughter and her boyfriend,  23-year-old Jeremy Steinke, were arrested. Each was charged with three counts of first-degree murder.

At a bail hearing Tuesday, Steinke was ordered to undergo a psychiatric review to see if he's fit to stand trial.

The 12-year-old girl, whose identity is protected by the Youth Criminal Justice Act, made a brief appearance in youth court on Monday. Her case was put over until June 2.

>> IMHO, you would be putting yourself and your GF in an extremely awkward position, especially after considering this incident.  Not many parents would be accepting of a relationship like this, especially if they knew about the triple homicide in Medicine Hat, Alberta, Canada.  My advice is, keep it as a "friendship" until she is at least 16.  Once she turns 16, there isnt anything that neither the Canadian nor the American Governments and legal systems can do to stop you two from being together.

BTW, I don't know whether I would condone a relationship like that, but the decision is yours, not mine.  So I figured you should know all of this so that you can make an informed decision instead of an impulsive one.

FYI:
Minors can have sex in Canada at age 14.
Minors can have sex in U.S.A. at age 16.

10 to 20

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>>13
hopefully this answers your question >>1

>>1
if you act all nice and shit, people will be understanding. you are not in the internets where every either wants to fuck everything under 18 or wants to kill those who do.

>>11
Topical!

>>13
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Did I take a wrong turn to /vip/?

i had a 13 y o gf when i was 20. she was kinda mature for her age. our relationship lasted 1 year after which she dumped me.

i am 20 and i want a 13 year old girlfriend. at least she'd be a fucking virgin.

I am 20 and I want a 13 year old girlfriend. Because I'm a sick bastard.

>>19
Don't bet on it :(
Fukkin whores

hmm i was in a similar thing with a girl at work, she was 15 i am 20, we thought it all good, she was very mature for her age and an incredible person to be around, it wasnt sexual really, but people did give us wierd looks every now and then, but we were in love and it was awesome, but we grew apart really fast, i wanted to go out clubbing somenights and she couldnt come, i wanted to do things and her parents wouldnt let her, we couldn't let her parents know because they were very strict cause she was only 15.  especialy around teenage years, use the formula,   <your age> / 2   + 7 = < thier minimum age>

go out and be a player for a few years while she catches up.

clubbing is such a fucking waste of time and resources.

>>22


all my relationships are a lie :(

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How would you feel if some random 29year old dude was going out with your 13 year old daughter.

>>25

>>26
i'd ask for pics plz

open relationship means open orifices.

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>>11

If you're 16 or 17 you can have sex with a 16 or 17 year old. If you're 18, it's still statutory rape.

I banged a 14 year old when I was 19. Good times.
She actually lied about her age the first itme we met and I thought she was sixteen, oh well lol.

>>25
OP, if you're still around, listen to this man.

If it is like my town, the parents wouldn't care much because they are bad shitty parents and the town is a heaving heap of alcoholism.

There is no risk in being perceived or labeled an pedo because regardless of your activities, the possibility of being thought of as such are astronomical. Even if someone complains to her parents and they confront you, ask them what would be the best course of action then. This way, you leave the choice-making in the parent's hands instead of leaving them with no choice (power). Always relinquish power (choice) to the people you influence, you will win 9/10 times in the long-run.

The only risk you run is between parent and child ego-boundaries.

"Never come between a parent and their child."

So long as you don't cross the ego-boundaries of that relationship until she is 18+, you should be fine. Make sure to ask the parents permission for their child to attend whatever event you have in mind. When you have their blessing, it smooths over the edges so you can ease your way and mind into hers. Once you have done this for 5 more years (assuming she's 13) when that fateful day comes, so will the two of you.

Good luck.

>>34
You've just described every town in America lol

>>1
This depends of your culture, but I wouldn't advise you to tell many people about it, due to the pedo-scare going on.

When I was 13 I sucked a lot of cocks. But that was a different time back then. Sucking was named lobbering because that's the way it was back then. And cocks were roters; they looked like roter so we named them roters. So in essence sucking cocks is lobbering roters back then.

>>38
Welcome to the 21st century.

it`s very properly