I've got a big problem.
I have a really sweet, nice, good girlfriend for allmost a year.
I love her. That's not the problem.
The problem is I know a girl, I like very much too.
She's totally different different to my girlfriend.
A long time, I thought she'd be a level too high for me, but the last days, I realised she isn't. We do many things together with friends, at school, so on...
She likes to do things with me.
I'm happy to be next to her, but I'm also really happy to be next to my girlfriend.
I don't know, if there'd be more between us, if I'd try.
I don't want to destroy the friedship or the love. But when I'm next to my gf I sometimes think of her and the other way round.
I don't know what to do now, I'm really despaired.
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Anonymous2006-09-10 21:25
go asexual.
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Anonymous2006-09-10 21:29
Sexy time!
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Anonymous2006-09-10 23:25
>>1
Use intrigue to gain power, then use that power to coerce them into a 3some with you.
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Anonymous2006-09-10 23:39
>>1
Which girl will suck AND swollow? That is the one to concentrate on.
Dude, the answer is simple. Which one do you like more? If you say, "well, this one but..." there is no but. Don't stay with someone you don't see a future with. And in doing so, don't get rid of a good relationship just because you think one MIGHT be better.
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Anonymous2006-09-11 18:48
i'm the treadstarter:
that's the problem, normally I would set my gf over everything else, but nowerdays we have some problems, no quarrel, but problems. And we cannot do anything, then wait, wait, wait.
Cause we both know the problem and cannot do anything against it.
(Her health...)
And then on the other side, there's this totally healthy, cute, sweet, intelligent, sexy other girl...
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CATS2006-09-11 21:31
YOU HAVE NO CHANCE TO SURVIVE MAKE YOUR TIME.
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Anonymous2006-09-11 23:39
>>10
Exactly as I said. "I like this girl, we have no serious problems, but the other one might be better." Ask yourself, IS the other girl better or not? If you don't know, don't risk it. Unless you are unsatisfied with the current relationship. In which case, bring it up with her. If she's mature at all she can talk about it and then you both can decide what to do. Of course it'll be difficult, but working it out will save you fuss now and in the long run.
Seriously, my health sucks as well. The girl I'm closest to claims to love me, is willing to wait out my problems and help me if need be, but I still know that at any time she can do as she pleases and stay with another guy. It's her choice, and we can and already do talk about her choices. This sounds like very much the same situation.
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Anonymous2006-09-12 0:56
wow. you must really like making yourself feel like a character from a teen drama show. grats. be a man and just make a decision already.
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I think I would have chosen the way your gf took, if nobody had a "wow, that's it"-answer.
And now to know, i'm not the only one, who's these problems, it's much easier to carry them ;)
thx a lot
I don't know what's your healthproblem, but i hope for you it'll get much better