Okay, so this guy is kinda shy when it comes to girls. He's only ever had one girlfriend, and she dumped him after about a month. He's a very open person and has a lot of friends, but he isn't the kind to go through girlfriends very quickly. Lately I've been hanging out with him a lot, and we're pretty good friends I guess you could say.
The problem is that I am even shyer than he is, never had a boyfriend and am a little angsty teen bith (omg!blahblah get over it). I don't know how to tell if he likes me. Even if he hinted at me I probably managed to miss that because that's just how dumb I am.
Hell, to prove how dumb and helpless I am just see now how I am going to 4-channers for advice. Well, seeing as how my closest friends are 4-channers I guess it's really just a bigger variety of what I'd get from them. Whatever.
Anyways, any advice or suggestions would be appreciated. The standard "just tell him how you fell" would not be, considering I have heard this so much, but what the hell. Say what you want, I'm open to criticism and enlightement.
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Anonymous2006-06-21 1:09
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Anonymous2006-06-21 2:37
Alcohol; the key to many things.
No, I'm not saying to get your friend drunk so you can take advantage of him. But it might help you both loosen up just a little bit. So, next time you're hanging out have some wine or a few beers. You'll probably find that both of you will be a little less shy and maybe on of you will make a move or say something. The key here is just to have enough booze to lighten up a bit. Whatever you do, don't get drunk!
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Anonymous2006-06-21 4:29
He hates alcohol. believe me, I have thought about that and how much easier it would make the situation...
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Anonymous2006-06-21 4:34
Just tell him "take off your pants, hotstuff" the next time you're alone with. Oh, and TITS or GTFO. Having a little alcohol isn't such a bad idea to be honest.
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Anonymous2006-06-21 12:58 (sage)
He doesn't like you.
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Anonymous2006-06-21 15:57
take him to a gay bar
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Anonymous2006-06-21 16:00
if you look decent-ish, then give some fanservice
like... cleavage, 'accidently' fall against him, you probably like anime, ask him over for an all night anime-fest, talk about things you both like.
Show a little skin!
But if you're not entirely comfortable with that just try making some changes to your hair or clothing. Guys might be kind of dense sometimes, but they'll definetly notice if dye your hair or make some other kind of big change.
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Anonymous2006-06-21 16:55
>>1
Watch shounen anime, and behave like these girls. Or just go straight to the point and say "Hey, I like you."
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Anonymous2006-06-22 3:47
are u a girl
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Anonymous2006-06-22 4:36
Try this:
Cook for him.
It gives you two time to be together while you prepare the food as well as while you eat.
"let's hang out and I'll cook us some dinner" is safer than, "hey let's go out and do something," Because it doesn't really seem like a date. And the situation lends itself to both of you being more relaxed.
You should try to tell him straight how you feel. Believe me most of us guys are pretty dense when it comes to that sort of thing. Come out and say it and most of us won't go OMG GTFO! you know. Try some hints and if they don't work then just go straight to it and ask. If you hint beforehand it may put the idea of a relationship with you into his head; so that when you do ask how he feels he'll have been wanting to ask the same thing.
Just go for it. Better than leaving it and letting someone else grab him.
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Anonymous2006-06-22 8:35
>>10
but not all men like it when women throw themselves at them. i thought as a rule, men prefer to chase?
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Anonymous2006-06-22 9:31
>>17
No. That's all a big lie perpetrated by corporate america.
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Love_fiasco-guy2006-06-22 9:38
>>17
That seriously is the dumbest misconception ever. Some just accepted that they HAVE to chase, so they do it willfully. Most of us don't like the hassle, though.
But! To the OP, I recommend some fine fruits spiked with a bit of alcohol. You don't notice it in very sweet fruits, and it helps to loosen up a bit. Just a thought.
Though, for a no-alcohol alternative, simply invite him over to you. For example, cook, have dinner, then watch a movie together and get really close to him.
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Anonymous2006-06-22 9:47
>>19
what kind of fool doesn't taste alcohol added to something? unless it's an insignificant amount which defeats the purpose. way to look like a creep.
anyway, i can't think of anything more unattractive than women dressing like pam anderson and being pushy. desperation is not sexy, not even if you look amazing. not saying cold bitches are attractive, but take-it-or-leave-it attitudes.. yes.
>>18 can you honestly say that you would enjoy it if some ho latched onto your arm with puppy dog eyes? eghhhh..
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Anonymous2006-06-22 9:51
>>1
OP do not lower yourself by acting lovesick and pushy. make one proposition, if the other party does not respond, then it's on them.
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Anonymous2006-06-22 12:54
>>20
i dont think he was talking about whoring it up. >>19
The alcohol isnt really a good idea i think, you might say something wrong because of it and then your chances are fucked.
The dinner could be a good idea, don't make it too big, just something you would normally cook.
A little bit more info about him would help, what does he like and stuff
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Anonymous2006-06-22 13:28
Does the guy like masturbating to drawings of seven-year-old girls?
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Anonymous2006-06-22 14:33
OP here.
>>23
He does, actually. One time I accidentally walked in him jerking off to a picture of a real 7-10 year old. She was clothed, but still.
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Anonymous2006-06-22 14:37
>>24
If you walked in on him, that means he will be thinking of you every time he masturbated, hoping that you will come right as he comes ;)
Just take initiative and start stroking either his cock, or shove your cock in his face, that's bound to capture him for all eternity.
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Anonymous2006-06-22 14:43
All of the posts here are from retards. Just... grow a spine and tell him you like him.
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