an inquiry

ok, i don't really know where else to post this, cuz it doesn't really fit into the topic, but i wanted to say something so i guess this is the best place to do it. i always get a great arguement on this board.

when i see an attractive female, the first thing that pops into my mind isn't sex. i want to get to know her, find out what kind of person she is. it's kinda like this with everyone that i meet.

i have had a few girlfriends, and one serious one that i moved across the country to be with.

i'm back at home now and trying to get back into the dating scene again, but i seem to become more of a friend to females completely on accident. i've tried to be normal around them and just have a conversation, but at some point i become nothing more than a friend.

i feel as though i should have been born a female. not that i want the cock, but i suppose what you could say is that i feel that i get along with females better. not being your average asshat, but i'm pretty sure, if things were how they should have been, i would have been at least a bisexual.

i am usually unseen in dreams that i have, but when i am i am normally female. i think that the female body is absolutely beautiful. i am told by MANY of my male friends that they wish i was a girl, or that if i was a girl they would do this to me or that to me. i've also been told multiple times by my male friends that i look "beautiful" or
"pretty." it kinda weirds me out, and has been for a long time, but maybe it's just the way that i am?

i do not find males attractive in any way. i am constantly hanging out with both sexes, and get along with both quite well. females interest me, though. i understand where they are coming from more than i understand where guys are coming from.

is something wrong with me?

>>1

If you asked a psychiatrist that question, they would say, "No, there is nothing wrong with you." and then give some bullshit answer in an attempt to boost your self esteem, while blocking you from the truth.... which will KILL your self esteem in the long run.  But the truth is, "YES!!! THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU!"

As it is, you are a failure as a man.

>>when i see an attractive female, the first thing that pops into my mind isn't sex. i want to get to know her, find out what kind of person she is.

LOL!!!  You idiot. Well, first of all, you're in denial.  You DO  think about sex immediately, it's just that you're a pussy and you've convinced yourself that you're this sensitive retard who is different from everyone else.  Think about it man.... you say when you see a BEAUTIFUL girl, you think about wanting to get to know her.  What about when you see an ugly girl?  Do you have this unexplainable desire to know her?  NO!  You want to get to know her because she is beautiful and it is your sex drive that is the cause of your desire to "get to know her". 

But don't worry, you're not abnormal, you're just a failure (currently).  LOTS AND LOTS of dudes are like you, dudes who just don't understand women, or apparently, themselves. 

Go to this newsgroup, and realize that you suck http://groups.google.ca/group/alt.seduction.fast?lnk=sg&hl=en  you can also go to doubleyourdating.com and download the authors stuff off some file sharing program. 

>>7

My bad... that newsgroup I gave actually sucks and is confusing.  This is much better resource http://www.fastseduction.com  You have A LOT of reading to do if you want to learn something about yourself, and about women.

>>8
And oh yeah, use this opportunity right now to THANK GOD that you live in this era, because if you lived 20 years ago in a time without the internet, there is no way in fucking hell you would come across resources like this to teach you about women.  You would be screwed and probably go on living for many years as frustrated and clueless as you are now.