Would you date a girl with epilepsy?

I know this girl for several years now. A couple of months ago we got a little closer to each other (we kissed and "played" - petting). She thinks of me as her boyfriend but I'm not in love with her. In fact she doesn't catch me emotionally. Anyway I would gladly take some "experience" with her.
I'm sure that she's not "the one", I can't imagine her for longer term. I think she only wants a casual relationship too, but I'm not sure.
The thing is that she has epilepsy. I know that I can't get it from her (can I?) but this somehow helds me back.
And I don't know if I should follow my insticts (I don't love her, she only turns my insticts on).
So, what would you do in my place?
Discuss!

I'd hit it.

So what it matters if she has epilepsy? Sure you can't go disco with her or somewhere else with flashing lights, but I see no other problem. I'm pretty sure also that in modern times most cases of epilepsy can be fixed through surgery.

Watch pokemon with her then rape her when she has a seizure

>>3
She takes a massive amount of medicine.
I never saw her having a seizure, I don't know what would I do in that case. I don't know too much about this disease.

Anyway, I'm not sure if it's right to continue this relationship if I'm only driven by instincts. I have little experience, but I'd rather have a love relationship... but right now, there's no other girl in view. I never had too much luck with girls...

Just let her hold your dick in one hand and show her some epilepsy flash and should will have the greatest handjob evar

>>1 "petting?"
FURRY!

kidding. instincts/experience = SEX = fucking. you want to fuck her. nothing wrong with that, but there are a few strings that will try to wrap around you. how much does epilepsy affect this girl? shes probably stressed out when shes with you praying to not have an attack. she probably plays it cool with low self-esteem and here you are giving her attention. even though its based on sexual-drive and even if she knows you only want a casual relationship, sex creates dependency. imagine if her health digresses and shes forced to seclude herself from society, i am quite positive she will hope to have you by her side. are you willing to bear that responsibility? or avoid her and lower her esteem even more? for sex?

I wish my ex had epilepsy.  At least then I could have turned on some Pokemon during sex, induced a siesure, and finally get her to do more than just lay there.

As for epillepsy, if she has a siesure, just stick a jacket beneath her head and give her room.  You just have to let the spazms happen.  Call 911.

As for your relationship, go for it.  It's clear you both just want something casual.  Get some experince out of it.  And not just sex experince, relationship experince.  You don't want to meet a great girl, get serious with her, and then be a noob. 

Just don't let her think it's going to go farther than casual unless you want it to.  When/if that time comes, tell her it's over.  She wants one thing out of a relationship, you want something else.  It's not going to work out anymore.  After that, you'll probably just get fed up with each other.  Break up before you get on each other's nerves.  You can still be friends, and just have happy memories of your former relationship.

>>7
As she told me, the medicine she takes can control her state pretty well. She can go to concerts or watch movies without problems (i'm not sure about disco lights), but places with water (swimming pools, water parks) and rollercoasters can trigger a seisure.
Anyway, she had 3 guys in the past (I had only one girlfriend yet) so she has more experience than me. Sometimes she tries to control me a little (which I don't mind) or gives me lille hints on what to do (like "hey, you can go lower with your hands")
Sure I want to fuck her, but I have a tension and I don't know why. Maybe it's because I have little experience and that gives me a subconscious fear that I may look awkward.

>> "are you willing to bear that responsibility?"
Now this is a point where I get vague. I think I could not always support her.

>>8 "You don't want to meet a great girl, get serious with her, and then be a noob."

Yes, that's true. I had a serious girlfriend, and I was so clumsy sometimes... I don't want to feel that embarrassment again...
I was in love with her and was ashamed of these things, even though I knew that se was inexperienced too.

But there's another thing: I asked her to go hiking or to play pool and so, but she told me that she must study. I thought she wanted to shake me off, so I didn't call her for a while. We only chatted on MSN for 3 weeks, then she called me and asked why I was so distant lately. I told her about these things and she understood me. We agreed that we should talk about this and settle things, but I'm still unsure if I should continue dating her.
Guess I'm too indecisive.

WHERE ARE YOUR BALLS YOU DIRTY FOREIGNER SCUM? THEY DON'T TEACH KIDS SHIT NOWADAYS. IT WAS DIFFRENT IN MY TIME. NOW ALL THEY RAISE ARE THESE SPINELESS PUSSIES

>>10
What's this comment all about? You sound like an old hag.

Anyone got a link to that Japanese AV seizure video clip? I'm sure it'll educate >>1.

Just like you can get aids by kissing.

It's fiiiiiine. You'll just have to cancel your strobe light discoing.

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must have

>>1
The thing is that she has epilepsy. I know that I can't get it from her (can I?) but this somehow helds me back.
You don't "catch" that :rolleyes: ... it's in her genes.

Nothing wrong with epilepsy, just avoid shit places (clubs, etc.) and videogames, and careful with having her suck your dick, better not. The rest should be fine I think. If you ever see her having a seizure, open her mouth and hold her tongue so she doesn't swallow it (at least that's what I've heard they do), then call your country's emergency number.

>>16 "careful with having her suck your dick, better not."
Hah, she said she never practiced oral sex... me neither, but I don't mind.

Anyway I'm now sure that she's just a casual partner and not the true love.
We haven't met in a while but last night we went to a rock conert. She was fine with it, but all the time she was just standing next to me holding my hand. I really don't know if she wants a serious relationship or not...
...but probably not.

>>Would you date a girl with epilepsy?

Yes. In fact, that's my fetish.

>>18
My fetish are glasses... I LOVE girls with glasses... in fact, she wear glasses too. :D

I think you should ask yourself the question, "why don't I love this girl?" and try to find a rational reason why you'd rather be with another girl. I hope it's not because she's epileptic. That's barely an issue with today's medicine.

>>11

I believe he is annoyed because he thinks that >>1 is a pussy for not following his instincts.  I agree.  It is dumb to be a wuss and be all fuckin retarded about sex.... "waaaah!! I want sex but is it wrong to follow my instincts?" and so on and so forth with this pussy shit.  >>1  Be a man.  Have sex with her.

I don't know why the fuck you even care that she has epilepsy... that is really irrelevant.  But you may not want to let her suck your dick because there have been cases of bitches who have an seizure while sucking dick, and they clench down on the dick and do not let go.  I read of one case of a guy who was getting his dick bit by his girlfriend while she was seizuring, so he stabbed her in the head until she let go.  LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  They both went to the hospital for lacerations.

If you want her to give you oral sex I suggest getting one of these for her http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/resized/du615f_244_325.jpg

When you are having sex (normal vaginal, her on top) suddenly whip out a flash light and repeatedly swing the beam across her face, real quick.

You'll be in for one hell of a ride!

IF SHE BUYS YOU AN EXPENSIVE GIFT THAT'S THE SIGNAL TO DUMP HER

>>24 is right.

>>1 No you can't contract it.. And she shouldn't be getting any epileptic seizures so long as she sticks with her medication, no matter what bright flashy environment she's in. Maybe read up what to do if someone has a seizure, just in case one ever happens, but aside from that you shouldn't put too much thought into her epilepsy when considering whether or not to date her.

Okay, maybe the best thing to do is to meet her more often. I think I still got to know her more.
Anyway it looks like she doesn't want to dump me because of my hesitation so everything is fine.
I want to have sex with her and if she wants too then it doesn't matter that we're not in love, right?

I think I'll have a talk with her about her disease so she'll know she can trust me in case she hase a seizure.

Thank you guys, I now see the situation more clear.

>>27
I want to have sex with her and if she wants too then it doesn't matter that we're not in love, right?
Yes, it doesn't matter if both of you want, as long as she understands the situation and doesn't think you do because you love her. Perhaps after you have sex you'll find love.

And yes, talking to her about epilepsy and asking what to do if she has a seizure will be most helpful. Not only you'll build trust, but she'll be more likely to have sex with you and enjoy it without being worried about it (even if it's a very low chance of happening, sex requires no worries).

If you exchange bodily fluids with someone having an epilectic fit you get epilepsy.

>>29
Is this true? I think not.

>>29
Lol, that's retarded. Epilepsy is a genetical problem, not something you can ever catch. It's just impossible. Go ahead, ask any doctors. You can't get epilepsy.

But there's one girl you could make very happy and possibly end up in a relationship with. So don't waste any more time here and go call her you n00b!

Dude, just tell her you're afriad you catch it when you want to break up with her after the sex is no longer any good. Then you'll look like a complete ass and she won't bother to try and make you stay.

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Is she the ultimate moe character?
http://danbooru.donmai.us/post/view/22478

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Same person

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I loled

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