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The Theory of Love

Name: Anonymous 2006-05-09 19:16

Alright, I've been told numerous times that love is indescribable. In a worldly sense, I believe love is a false ideology, mainly because of all these nymphomaniacs, rapists, etc. I may seem pessimistic, but that is what I believe. The world is so corrupted and plagued by such primitive beings who indulge in sex and such. Those who marry for money and a great sex life, not for companionship or devoted trust to ones spouse. From a pyschological perspective, these traits defines males and females, as well as from my point of view. Males: Possesive, arrogant and chauvanistic, and at times deceptive. Females: Majority of the time deceptive; greedy. Love is but a simple fragment in this world. It holds no true value, because people fail to recognize it and act on it. They just care about themselves. Their own indulgences. I'm asexual because of these very same reasons and more. Relationships, sex, and marriage ALWAYS lead to problems, and the majority of the time, divorce ensues or maybe even death. I deny my primitive "instincts" and think out of the box instead of the "normal" individual. Why bother when one can avoid these unecessary anamolies? Lust is usually dominant. Love is underminded, thrown out. It usually about sex. I have plenty of other reasons why I do not like either gender as well. Males: AIDS, STDS, immoral, societal rejection. Females: deception, STDS. I supress my hormones. I reject their lustful manipulation. And I'm not insinuating that love does not exist, only that it's presence is but a fragment in the world, and in the hearts of humanity. This is my theory. Opinions?

Name: Anonymous 2006-05-10 10:29

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Man, you see it in a wrong way! It's true that love and relationships bring out many problems, but tell me just one point in life where you'll never have any problems?
Avoiding love is stupid. You may want to avoid problems, but you will avoid the good things as well. I think that love with all of its problems worth the struggle. Anyway, you can't improve if you don't suffer.
It's sad that the majority of today's youth have gone corrupt and only think about sex, but be glad that you are not one of them.
Beleive me, there still are people who think that love is more important than sex. Like me for example. I was together with my girlfriend for 10 months, and we never had sex. And not because we wasn't motivated for it, simply because it was a love relationship and we were "satisfied" by just being together.
The problem was that over time, I felt a stronger emotion for her than she had for me, and later the situation became like that I wasn't important for her anymore. But anyway that was true love.
And to state it clear, I'm no adolecent boy with overflowing hormones. I'm 23.

Anyway, sex is a piece of life, and in a harmonic relationship it could be the strongest thread between the two. It's just that you mustnt place it over love and other things. I think that if you just chase for sex for your own pleasure and don't care about others, now that's very bad...

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