The Theory of Love

Alright, I've been told numerous times that love is indescribable. In a worldly sense, I believe love is a false ideology, mainly because of all these nymphomaniacs, rapists, etc. I may seem pessimistic, but that is what I believe. The world is so corrupted and plagued by such primitive beings who indulge in sex and such. Those who marry for money and a great sex life, not for companionship or devoted trust to ones spouse. From a pyschological perspective, these traits defines males and females, as well as from my point of view. Males: Possesive, arrogant and chauvanistic, and at times deceptive. Females: Majority of the time deceptive; greedy. Love is but a simple fragment in this world. It holds no true value, because people fail to recognize it and act on it. They just care about themselves. Their own indulgences. I'm asexual because of these very same reasons and more. Relationships, sex, and marriage ALWAYS lead to problems, and the majority of the time, divorce ensues or maybe even death. I deny my primitive "instincts" and think out of the box instead of the "normal" individual. Why bother when one can avoid these unecessary anamolies? Lust is usually dominant. Love is underminded, thrown out. It usually about sex. I have plenty of other reasons why I do not like either gender as well. Males: AIDS, STDS, immoral, societal rejection. Females: deception, STDS. I supress my hormones. I reject their lustful manipulation. And I'm not insinuating that love does not exist, only that it's presence is but a fragment in the world, and in the hearts of humanity. This is my theory. Opinions?

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Now I was in love recently. I had managed to avoid all these realtionships and hormones, as I did see them to be a waste of my time. I instead found one really great girl and thought the world of her but never told her, she was my silent motivation. But as human beings, with some sort of soul they say, we need to believe in this thing called love because it gives up hope.

Now many people on these boards have never experienced even simple lust, so they rage out against the whole thing in some attempt at not caring? How many have fallen in love, and gotten hurt for it?

Though I always had that great chick in my mind, she ws simply there for motivation, an unobtainable dream. I always said that if I ever fell in love with someone else, I would remove all the mental sort of investment I put in her, and put all of it on the line with my new love. I did. She broke up with me March 31st, it sucked ass.

What happened was that I loved this girl, and was very willing to spend the rest of my life with her, but she told me that she just didn't love me. Now there is no way for me to know if that was all there was too it, but I hope to god it is.

After all that, I am supposed to be bitter and sarcastic to love, say things like "LOVE?!?! THAT'S BULLSHIT!", and while I have been bitter, I haven't gone that far yet. Love is something that everyone wants to attain, it makes you feel good, feel special, and it brings out qualities you never knew you had.

By "Surpressing" yourself, you are being a coward and not taking a chance, sure you will prolly get hurt, but it's the game. Just play smart.