The Theory of Love

Alright, I've been told numerous times that love is indescribable. In a worldly sense, I believe love is a false ideology, mainly because of all these nymphomaniacs, rapists, etc. I may seem pessimistic, but that is what I believe. The world is so corrupted and plagued by such primitive beings who indulge in sex and such. Those who marry for money and a great sex life, not for companionship or devoted trust to ones spouse. From a pyschological perspective, these traits defines males and females, as well as from my point of view. Males: Possesive, arrogant and chauvanistic, and at times deceptive. Females: Majority of the time deceptive; greedy. Love is but a simple fragment in this world. It holds no true value, because people fail to recognize it and act on it. They just care about themselves. Their own indulgences. I'm asexual because of these very same reasons and more. Relationships, sex, and marriage ALWAYS lead to problems, and the majority of the time, divorce ensues or maybe even death. I deny my primitive "instincts" and think out of the box instead of the "normal" individual. Why bother when one can avoid these unecessary anamolies? Lust is usually dominant. Love is underminded, thrown out. It usually about sex. I have plenty of other reasons why I do not like either gender as well. Males: AIDS, STDS, immoral, societal rejection. Females: deception, STDS. I supress my hormones. I reject their lustful manipulation. And I'm not insinuating that love does not exist, only that it's presence is but a fragment in the world, and in the hearts of humanity. This is my theory. Opinions?

I take it you've never really asked anyone who's been in love besides those who got dumped 9 times at 15 years old and still heard "I love you" 8 of those times before it happened.

Try asking some older people who aren't young, hormone enraged teens. Also skip the ones who got divorced 3 times already at 30. Despite how that is the majority today, that's not all there is.

Take someone I know. She may get pissed off at times, jealous and feel despressed about shit sometimes (her dad regularily raped her) but she decided to be different from this hellish world. She's warm, caring and devoted. Picture the most trusted friend you could have, one that would give up anything in their day for you, someone who shares your same goals in life and is always there when you need them, happily.

She was damn horny for the first couple of years and that was all cool, but at the same time she supports me in what I need to do, fights for me and with me, and even looks after my physical well being when I'm in too much pain to walk. (I go to doctors nearly every week).

Denying your physical desires is a great idea at first. We never did anything at the start until we decided to stay together. It gave her and myself a chance to prove our friendship was based on something else.

So you're mostly right. Hormones suck. But love is not indescribable. It's just the level beyond the trust and confidence you have in a normal friend.