Tips on getting laid. (lol 4chan)

My 20th birthday is coming up and I've decided that I want to lose my virginity before then. I'm pretty decent looking, I've had few girls tell me I'm sexy. But I'm not really a party kind of guy, and I'm kind of shy, which greatly hinders my ability to get laid. What tips can you give me to help me on my way?

Tell me humans. Why do you conform to such things beyond your control? You didn't always want the "pussy".