Have I fucked up here?

So, I had a first date last night with a very nice girl, really hit it off, share a lot of interests, blah blah blah. We've already agreed to catch up for a second date, so things must have gone pretty OK. BUT! I walk her back to her apartment, we stand outside talking for a few minutes as she finds her keys, I give her a hug, all is good.

The question is, was that the perfect time for a first kiss, and if it was, how far have I climbed up the lame scale? I mean, do people (OK, girls) expect a kiss on the first date? And if they do, what do they think if they don't get one?

*sigh* Damn I wish I wasn't so crap at times...

You fucked up by talking to a girl, already you are giivng in to it's will, it may already be too late to save your mind.
Run anonymous, we must abandon him lest we catch the disease ourselves! I'll do my sageing here, you go bump the other threads.