Ugh, Women

I'll try to make this less asinine than I did on /b/.

There's this girl a really like.  I've felt this way for a while, but could never actually make a move or anything, partly because I was afraid she wouldn't be my friend anymore, but mostly because she's almost always seeing someone else & is unavailable.  However, I've done everything BUT make a move on her.  I've been nothing but nice for two years.  I've gone out of my way to do nice thigns for her all the time.  I've dropped what I was doing or ditched my other friends to spend time with her.  I've helped her with things, even when I didn't want to, & supported her when she was having problems.  I was even kind & supportive at times when she ocassionally wasn't being very nice.  Yes, some of these are things friends should do anyhow, but I always treated her special, putting her before anyone else, even myself.  (And to those of you with a one-track mind, no, I wasn't jsut being nice to try to score with her.  Yes, she's attractive, but I can get meaningless sex anywhere, I actually cared about this girl.)

So, after breaking up with her latest BF, who does she start dating?  My roommate!  He was never outright mean to her or anything, but he was enver particularly nice to her, either.  In fact, she asked him out once, & he rejected her, really hurting her feelings.  And now she's crawling back to him!

I hate them both right now, but I think I ahte myself more.  I jsut fail at life.

no matter how much we argue and try to figure it out nothing will ever happen, just accept that we are failures at life , we have 1 in a million chance to get a girlfriend. Ive done what >>1 has done, and no matter how many sacrifices you make for her, how many ways you change your lifestyle and abandon your friends for her, or how much you feel for her etc, in the end you will always fail.

if you confess to her a thousand times nothing will happen either, you are just wasting your breath, she simply doesnt see you as the man she wants.

So just give up, stop trying so hard, and throw away your idealistic goals and think of the true reality of things, because in true reality, she isnt interested in you, she wants another man, its very simple. All the things you sacrificed for her will result to nothing, and your life will be in ruins when youve finally decide it was impossible in the first place.