Ugh, Women

I'll try to make this less asinine than I did on /b/.

There's this girl a really like.  I've felt this way for a while, but could never actually make a move or anything, partly because I was afraid she wouldn't be my friend anymore, but mostly because she's almost always seeing someone else & is unavailable.  However, I've done everything BUT make a move on her.  I've been nothing but nice for two years.  I've gone out of my way to do nice thigns for her all the time.  I've dropped what I was doing or ditched my other friends to spend time with her.  I've helped her with things, even when I didn't want to, & supported her when she was having problems.  I was even kind & supportive at times when she ocassionally wasn't being very nice.  Yes, some of these are things friends should do anyhow, but I always treated her special, putting her before anyone else, even myself.  (And to those of you with a one-track mind, no, I wasn't jsut being nice to try to score with her.  Yes, she's attractive, but I can get meaningless sex anywhere, I actually cared about this girl.)

So, after breaking up with her latest BF, who does she start dating?  My roommate!  He was never outright mean to her or anything, but he was enver particularly nice to her, either.  In fact, she asked him out once, & he rejected her, really hurting her feelings.  And now she's crawling back to him!

I hate them both right now, but I think I ahte myself more.  I jsut fail at life.

Tell me about it. Sort of same story here but mine been going on for like 4 years. And I gave numerous times of thinking about it about if its all worth it. In the end yes, eventhough I like her I still very much see her as friend.
What can I say. Some people just don't see the best things in life just right in front of them. And if we are talking about girls, we go into that stupid "friends" issue. Which probably what your girl in your situation is thiking as with mine. Mine is probably like "oh, he is the best friend. But I can't ever see him as a boyfriend."

What I really want to just do is just shout out to her face of how I have been the ONLY one that has really been there for her through thick and thin. But then you know the moment you do that, you start to be a selfish conceited bastard. And then again, treating her the best and being there for her isn't always going to win her feelings.