I've been watching anime since middle school, and since I didn't really even start considering girls in "that way" until after that, it was only natural that I fell for asians, what with anime, manga, and the types of sites I hang out at.
Though the truth is, I didn't even notice it until recently. (I'm in college now.) The fact that, although I can interact with any race normally with any day to day event (classmates, co-workers, etc,) I can only fall for Asians.
I mean, 6 out of 10 women around my age in Asian pictures(porn or otherwise) that I see online, I think I would consider going out with if I met them in real life (if they wern't a porn star, if applicable!).
Wherein with Caucasians, it's less than 1/50. (and black even less than that. I don't know, they usually seem sort of nasty, and I don't like loud women...)
With Hispanics and other non-black/Caucasian women it's usually higher than with Caucasians, but still less than with Asians. (Personally, it's probably becuase I consider Asians so freaking cute a lot of the time, and I *prefer* cute women. The "hot" ones usually look slutty to me. But again, probably the influence of anime and American anime culture.)
Anyway, I see this as a problem since, most likely, I probably won't move to Asia (yep, I'm realistic,) and I don't want to have a fetish for/be racist against certain kind of women.
Do you think this is a fetish? Do you think I'm racist? Do you agree with me? Do you think this just a perfectly normal preference? Any suggestions?
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Anonymous2005-10-04 9:00
>>1
I think this is a perfectly normal preference. I'm white and I think there aren't white women as incredibly hot as some Asians I saw. However, there aren't many Asians over here. I'm realistic too, so I'm not thinking of moving (nor I'd want to); I think I understand how you feel as I pretty much share your preference too.
Don't worry though, I don't see how that could be racist. Regardless of if you like Asians, blacks, or whites best, a preference is a preference, just as if you picked a blue car over a red car.
Azn chicks are all ugly and generic. I'd rather fuck a random white girl off the street than some fugly asian model.
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Anonymous2005-10-05 16:09
>White chicks are all ugly and generic. I'd rather fuck a random latino girl off the street than some fugly white model.
Fixed
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Anonymous2005-10-05 18:16
japs have bad teeth
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Anonymous2005-10-05 18:45
>>14
They usually do because they have smaller faces. But what's the big deal with teeth? Some people is obsessed with that. It's not like you'll be fucking her- OH SHI >_> . Anyways, teeth, as long as they don't look right out of an horror movie, are not a big deal.
Am new to this world of anonymous discussion, but I really like it.
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Anonymous2005-10-07 8:35
The problem is, most people are like you and don't find black people attractive.
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Anonymous2005-10-07 8:37
You sound like you've never been on a date. Go on a date with the first person you can find (non-Asian) just to check out if you have a fetish. It might be easier for you to pick up a black chick to start out with.
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Anonymous2005-10-07 13:39
>>1
Wank to people of a different race to maybe alter your preference.
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Anonymous2005-10-07 19:44
This is why I as an Asian guy find it hard to find any good asian girls. Because every other race wants asian girls as well.
Because apparently white guys > us Asian guys, duh.
Asian girls are easy: make sure her parents hate you, she'll like you more.
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Anonymous2005-10-08 20:39
>>26
>>white guys > us Asian guys
Not to mention in the cock deparment, asian guys totally lose. Not because of personaly fitness but its merely genetics.
>>22
Eh, well once, but that was quite a while ago (9th grade, if I recall.) Don't really know of any girls that I would want to date currently. (Besides one Asian! Too shy to ask her though... and she seems quite shy herself. Kind of why I like her.)
>>23
Tried it. :)
Most non-asian "wanking material" doesn't really have cute, more innocent looking girls. Cute >>>>> Sexy (Not to say I'm a Pedophile or something.)
Well... Asians are only 4.2% of the USA. If you were to pretend 2.1% were male and 2.1% were female, and that a lot of those stay in primarily Asian areas, no wonder it would be hard to find any good Asian girls outside of those areas.
Sort of different but, I wouldn't go to China, for example, and expect to find a nice black female there easily... but again, that's just an extreme example.
(Sorry 28 was me, and I accidently pressed "Add Reply"
Actually, come to think of it, my whole "preference" may have just developed from when I was younger.
Back when I started middle school, (Before I was into anime or anything of the sort,) I was shier than I am now, having been home-schooled for all the years prior.
Quite a few girls hit on me, crushed on me, and even asked me out over those two years.(Mostly by black grils, of course.) However, I didn't like loud girls like them! ...So I ended up just ignoring the subject whenever they brought it up. (And in the case of one girl who was extremely strong about it, so much that I couldn't even think of what to say, ignoring her completely. I remember her going up to the teacher in front of the whole class and saying "Mr. XXX! XXXX won't talk to me, and he talks to everyone else, especially the guys!" ...Then there was the time that one of them asked me if I was a virgin, and I said no since I thought it was a form of Christianity. ...haha, children.)
Well anyway, somewhere during my second year there I ran, and was chosen for, student body. My friends wanted me to run for School President as well, but that was a bit too much for me. The girl who ended being elected as school president (and the only real compitition I would've had :p) was a shy Asian girl.
As the year went on, I slow grew to crush on her, but never really said anything.
A weeks before school ended, yearbooks came out. It was then that she asked me to sign her yearbook, and asked to sign mine! It was odd, since I didn't consider myself someone that she really knew, but she had commented that she had had a crush on me as well.
Afterwards, we went to different high schools so I never saw her again... and only thought about it a few times after that.
(And oddly enough, it was some Chinese friends of mine in right grade that had *really* introduced me to anime and manga. They were pretty damn good manga-style artists, and I pretty much got interested in the style. After a while, I learned to draw pretty good too. But that habit was thrown out the window after freshmen year of high school, and my drawing's pretty much crap now.)
...So anyway, that's most likely how I got like this. :p
All this reminiscing is making me feel like an old man... I have to go pluck out my grey hairs.
Maybe you should stop calling yourself a nerd in japanese and stop altogether before you get kicked out of your gang. Or before the Yakuza guns you down for being a dick. :(