>>87
Again, wrong girls. And if that's who you are that's who you are. You don't like deception from either party and want things instantly rightout. Some people can't deal with that type of personality. Get over it. It's probabilistic--you just have a lower probability with the population, but it doesn't mean you won't bag your mark eventually.
Where are the good ones? Hiding behind a book, thinking exactly the same things you are. Out of your range of sight and interaction.
Drunk, smokes, and loud? Yeah, because they're trying to delabel themselves from the "princess" archetype. Trying to disassociate themselves from "goody goody" people.
Let me describe myself so you know where I'm coming from. I love screwing around with people. I have fun everyday making up stories about how I got this scar and this scar (like I was in Spain this summer and got in a barfight with Beckham, but he paid for the hospital bill and now I've got his mobile number right here). I objectify girls as simple-minded people with obvious motivations, inclinations, and attitudes. I laugh at everything, I manage to find humor in almost any event. I love to work out--not for looks or performance, but because of the buzz I get, it's so addictive. The end result? Sarcastic genius jock that plays with and throws away people regularly. And surfs 4chan. Once I stopped taking romance seriously it was a much happier lifestyle. I concentrated on myself, and making every day very fun, productive, and rewarding. All girls are very fun as long as you don't give a shit about romance--use them as ways to get in touch with more important people, a way to hook up a friend with a date if he's down, or a piece of ass if you're in the mood. My contingency is that if I ever feel like I like the girl, I'll get closer, and when she asks to go the next step, decline and say "if you feel the same way in one year, I'll give it a shot." Then let things go from there.
I think you're a bit too focused on a gung ho approach--complete honesty, complete dedication, complete transparency, etc. A word of advice, which is my opinion, take it if you will: Discretion, restraint, and moderation are key. Going all in is a bold move, which, as an early encounter, suggests that you are dispositionally extreme on the average. While I'm sure you're a perfectly normal human being, girls won't see it that way. They'll see someone with a weird personality because, if the behavior is bold even to you, they will think this is the norm for you. Fundamental Attribution Error, it's called. If you really are extreme, you're just very picky with the population. Good luck on that one. lol