Who here has been single all their life.

（´Д｀;;) i get really nervous around girls for some reason, especially when i like them. Is it game over for me?

People have suggested that if you want avoid all this friend labelling shit, you should stand your ground and say to her that you want her to be your gf or nothing at all.

Then that would be really be gambling it all. As much as we all could say "this girl aint worth my time", if the girl was really special to you, you'd want to be close to her whether be it just as a friend or ideally as a bf. And if you put such a statement to her "me as your bf or nothing at all", heck she won't care, she'd just say fine and be happy that she has less things to worry about.