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As a girl, I'd like to respond to this:
-some girls like really funny, extroverted monkeyboys, but I'd say it depends on the girl's personality. I personally am intimidated by these kinds of guys. I think it depends more upon whether you seem confident and self-assured than whether you're and extrovert or introvert.
-some girls might get off on being treated like shit, but I think most of us are just looking for someone to connect to, a guy who will make us feel like we're special to him. A perfect guy is one who strikes a balance between being nice and caring (stereotypical male friend) and interesting and unpredictable (stereotypical bad boy)
-it's true that money is a consideration for older women, who might be finishing school and thinking about starting their careers, or getting a house and starting a family. Exactly how old are you and the girl? If she's 25 I can see this being an issue, but if you're both still in high school then unless she's totally shallow it shouldn't be a problem.