>>135
>>You do realize there's always the option of NOT being taken advantage of like that, right?
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>>136 says, its just because the integrity of the nice guy is that way. I confess i am one of those nice guys who would help eventhough I won't be returned the favour (whether in exact or less). But thats the person I choose to be. Albeit I am at least smart enough to only help people who Im sure are not just playing around with me.
But when it comes to girls I like/care about, I would still be there for her eventhough I know very well she wont be able to return the favour. Why i do it? Cos I won't be able to live myself if I just stand at the sidelines and see her all suffering. At least I am aware from the beginning not to expect anything back.
Friend told me once that reason why I never got a girl might be because I just dedicate too much in the beginning. Because of that a girl might feel she doesn't need to go to the next step to get my support/help. I dunno but I felt that kind of thinking would mean that the girl only liked me because of what I do for her and not for what I am as a person.