Originally, I posted this on 4chan's /b/ about some dude that I liked but I am too pussy to ask him out.
Brief description: I'm an introverted non socialible person. So is the guy I like (his name is Devon). We've been friends for about a year or so, and we've always had this tension, I guess. I've had a huge crush on him ever since I met him. But I'm too pussy to tell him how I feel. I just wish he would tell me how he feels about me, but I don't think that will happen. I have his cell number, because one time he just randomly gave it to me and also wanted mine. But I'm too shy to talk to him on the phone. I'm okay friends with his close friends, though they don't know I like him. Yesterday was the last day of school (I haven't graduated yet, I'm only 16.) and final exams are next week. I only have a few more chances to see him until next year, or if I see him over the summer. It's very akward for me though, and hard for me to talk to him and tell him how I feel. What should I do?
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Anonymous2005-06-16 23:32
Well, we've already been down the road a couple times so there isn't much we can say besides what we've said before.
Kill yourself and stop making these fucking threads. You got your responses in the last 5 threads you made, stop groping for validity you needy bitch.
If your anywhere near this fucking insecure and needy in real life, the only thing a guy will want to do is fuck you while your gagged. Now shut up and make your own gawd damn decsions and stop listening to people on the intarweb. K?
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Anonymous2005-06-16 23:36 (sage)
fail
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Anonymous2005-06-16 23:39
give her a fucking break, she's 16.
besides, no one forced you to read this thread, and I doubt world4ch has seen this rate of activity since it first opened.
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Bane !ceMUJENt.g2005-06-16 23:42 (sage)
I was forced to read this thread by Nazi's holding me capture as TORTURE cause its psychological damage is worse than any physical harm they could do.
btw: I don't give her a break cause there are about 14,000 other sites on the web where people would just LOVE to discuss her angst for pages on end, but this is not one of them.
Besides that, she already got her advice and was told to STFU in her last 5 threads (Im not kidding either) at this point she just won't take a hint and needs to get the fuck out and stop posting about her BS highschool drama.
Well, I guess. We could always use more posts here anyway.
But let's just recap what we have so far. What is your plan of action at this point in time?
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Anonymous2005-06-16 23:58
Like I know. I'd like to grow some balls and tell him how I feel, but that isn't going to happen. I could ask and see if he wanted to go bowling. Or, I could get some of his friends numbers and ask them to plan something so we're both there together.
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Anonymous2005-06-17 0:03
How close are you already? How long have you known him for, and are you friends already?
It might be best to take it really slowly -- just ask for his number, say "Hey maybe we can hang out sometime or something if you're free, do you have AIM?"
Establish the habit of talking with him through an online method, that will make it easier to talk to him PLUS you won't be worrying about the whole sound of your voice and getting nervous thing.
And take it very slowly. Start hanging out with him online, talk with him, joke with him, and for God's sake take initiative in this. Most guys won't take the first move in anything like this unless they're actively looking to fuck as their main goal. Since you're 16 I should hope that isn't as much an issue here but whatever.
Basically, what I'd recommend is for you to find some way to get in contact with him and talk with him without any mention of your emotions. Get to talking with him as a person first, and be friends.
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Anonymous2005-06-17 0:05
I have his cell number. He gave it to me one day randomly. He just called me with his cell and is like "Thats my number!" and asked for me. It was rather cute, but yeah.
We're pretty much only school friends. I've known him for a year or so.
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Anonymous2005-06-17 0:12
this is like the other 3 threads all over again
here's to your relationship though
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Anonymous2005-06-17 0:16
Okay, so get to know him better.
Unless a guy is looking for sex alone (which is not what you want), guys will not go out with someone they don't already care about. And they won't care about someone if they're not friends.
So establish a real friendship with him. That way, you can not only learn what he's like as a person and find out what he's really like, but you will be able to establish a relationship based on mutual interests and you will already be on the same wavelength.
If he's as shy as you say he is, he probably won't be looking for any other relationships for a while, so use this time you have to get to know him. Start out small: don't go with the going-and-hanging-out deal so early, start out by talking with him, finding out what he likes and dislikes, and establish a common ground. If you can't function together as merely friends, there is absolutely no way that you can function together as boyfriend and girlfriend.
The best relationships you could ever have are those where you're friends, and yet you're even closer than that. Best friends. But that won't happen until you're friends first; so put all your emotions aside and don't let them sway you. You have the advantage here because you want to become closer to him, so use it as your motivation to talk to him about just anything.
And for God's sake don't start with the "I like you" stuff for a while, until you know that he enjoys being around you a lot and you like being around him a lot.
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Anonymous2005-06-17 8:28
Ugh relationships. Look, just get drunk and tell him that you love him. If it works you can have hot teen sex with him and if it doesn't drink more and you won't even remember the next day.
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Anonymous2005-06-17 10:44
Be sure to take pictures.
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Anonymous2005-06-18 1:16
L I N K I N P A R K
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Anonymous2005-06-25 13:24
CCRRRAAAWWLLING INNN MYYYY SKINNNN
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Anonymous2005-06-25 14:34
EMO ANGST
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Anonymous2005-06-27 12:58
Kill him and everyone else in the school. YOU'RE WINNER!
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