Site for Japanese IM/email penpals

OP is an English native speaker.  I'm looking for the above, but most sites seem to be trying to sell me either a wife or cybersex.  Any recommendations for basic language practice?

Note: I'm not looking for a girlfriend (anonymous is married).

Well, there's this:

http://friends.thejapanesepage.com/public/home.jhtml

www.japan-guide.com

They have free ads for language learning (personal ads not really allowed)