>>3
GNU/Linux works should work "best" on a desktop computer, due to wider hardware support, and most applications are better supported on that platform then all other unix variants.
On server usage, I don't know. I find freebsd running better then GNU/Linux on my sucky-hardware playbox, pentium 1 with 48MB ram.
>>4
(open?)BSD kernel modified by Apple, used by Apple. I belive OS X and Tiger run on top of that. Apple were kind enough to opensource they're modifications.