tsundere=moe?

I have allways wondered what is the appeal of tsundere. I myself am infatuated with multiple characters who some call tsundere. rin tousaka,illya, asuka langly, etc. but i fail to understand what it is about a "mean girl" that turs us fans on soo much. many of the fans are allready suffering from inferiority complexes and having a women like that would realisticly probably drive them to suicide.

please post what you think it is that causes this attraction.

I personally like the childhood friend/quiet girl with crush better. but also for some of us with low will or self esteem having a hot and tough girl being dominate is kinda sexy. i mean if some hot tough chick just slapped me upside the head and said something like "your coming with me" or more forcefull "i want your cock now" i would jump on that in an instant...but then again if most any chick said something like that me id go for it. all in all i think some guys(and girls) would like a little dom/sub action. ^.^