tsundere=moe?

I have allways wondered what is the appeal of tsundere. I myself am infatuated with multiple characters who some call tsundere. rin tousaka,illya, asuka langly, etc. but i fail to understand what it is about a "mean girl" that turs us fans on soo much. many of the fans are allready suffering from inferiority complexes and having a women like that would realisticly probably drive them to suicide.

please post what you think it is that causes this attraction.

People with inferiority complexes love mean people because they guide(control) and offer emotional security(knowledge is the currency of power) to their partner.