Is love Hina really disturbing?

Keitaro recives so much abuse from the girls. I mean he gets told he is a loser endlessly. Also he goes with the girl Naru who puts him down the most. I think the whole thing is really dysfunctional.

I mean its gets really repetitive. "Your a loser! Pevert!!"

Still got 4 books of this to go. I really dont want to, but i need a complete set.