Look at yourself.

Can you honestly tell yourself you're not a loser? What has made you this way? How can you get better?

Lie ITT if it makes you feel better.

I'm not a loser. I am a very intelligent, and moderately attractive male with a large penis, and I am capable of getting laid with particular ease, and getting a decent job. Unfortunately I am still in college and have chosen not to persue a relationship yet, it shall come to me.