Safe Sex Without Condoms?

Call me stupid, but I want sex without condoms. Sure, the girl can be on the pill and there can be spermicide and other birth control added into the mix, but, I want it without condoms.

A few years back me and my girlfriend at the time went to the local Planned Parenthood and got her on a birth control pill. They told her she's perfectly fine to have sex without a condom as long as she's taking the pill everyday. This resulted in wonderful times for me.

Now, my new girlfriend, years later, is the patch, after looking into the options, but sex without a condom wasn't offered.

I'm no pregnancy genius, so i'm curious as to whether i'd been completely lied to beforehand and had extremely stupid amounts of condomless sex, or if perhaps i've been mislead recently and that safe, condomless sex exists.

Mind you, when I say safe sex, I mean no pregnancy. With a mongomous relationship, i'm not too worried about STDs. Strictly talking about pregnancy here.

I figured this is the only board this is relevent to, considering health, sex, and the human body are considered science.

So, any help?

#7, we all draw lines of definition.  I've drawn the line at a live birth.  Before the live birth, it's a piece of the mother's body and she can do whatever she wants with it, including subjecting it to the most brutal abortion method known to man.  After a live birth, the piece of flesh is a person, and killing it would be murder.

I'm sure there are many people who draw that line at conception.  In fact, considering the quality of public sentiments, I'm sure that quite a few folk consider the "sin of Onan" to be a real crime.  Those people are the Real Enemies of 4chan (which should be called "4onan").