Safe Sex Without Condoms?

Call me stupid, but I want sex without condoms. Sure, the girl can be on the pill and there can be spermicide and other birth control added into the mix, but, I want it without condoms.

A few years back me and my girlfriend at the time went to the local Planned Parenthood and got her on a birth control pill. They told her she's perfectly fine to have sex without a condom as long as she's taking the pill everyday. This resulted in wonderful times for me.

Now, my new girlfriend, years later, is the patch, after looking into the options, but sex without a condom wasn't offered.

I'm no pregnancy genius, so i'm curious as to whether i'd been completely lied to beforehand and had extremely stupid amounts of condomless sex, or if perhaps i've been mislead recently and that safe, condomless sex exists.

Mind you, when I say safe sex, I mean no pregnancy. With a mongomous relationship, i'm not too worried about STDs. Strictly talking about pregnancy here.

I figured this is the only board this is relevent to, considering health, sex, and the human body are considered science.

So, any help?

#12, you're a fundie asshole, who quite simply can't think straight and who has made America the theocratic hell that it is today.

The "organism" can't survive on its own, which is a really BIG BLACK MARK in the "organism" column.  But even with that aside, like I said and implied, it depends on where you ARBITRARILY draw the line.  I draw the line at a live birth.  Until then, this nonindependent "organism" is just a piece of the mother to me, and it will remain so no matter how many times you fundie dorks can't bend your tiny minds around such a viewpoint.

And, yes, an abortion means that I'm killing it.  I'm not so ghei that I avoid calling it what it is.  But it's not murder.  Before a live birth, the "organism" is just a piece of the mother and it's ENTIRELY hers to do with as she pleases.

Individual liberty is one of the founding principles of the American Republic.  Seeking such is not decadent.  The decadence instead is in your throwback philosophies.

P.S.  OP, if you don't accept abortion or a vasectomy, then your options for noncondomistic sex are largely confined to a pill, patch or implant.  THOSE ARE IT.