NEET

I don't to be a NEET all my life, so I want to start a career in ENTERPRISE programming, because there are lots of jobs in that area. So I have a few questions:

- should I learn C# or Java?
- Postgresql is good for this or should I install some bloated enterprise DBMS like Oracle?
- should i abandon /prog/?

>>7
Good advice, thanks.

I'm impressed, /prog/: no trolling in this thread, and helpful answers. Thanks /prog/