VPN and Networking

This isn't necessarily programming related, but I have a feeling like you guys would know how to help me.

I have a very frustrating situation on my hands. I have a local network set up with a freenas server on .250. This is where all of my work documents are. I set up a VPN on my router, and forwarded ports 21,20,80 to .250(:21,20,80) and 8080 to .250:80. Here's where it gets confusing and frustrating: I can connect to the VPN, access the router page, and access my server gui from .250... on 3g, from my phone. In a browser on WiFi, I can connect to my router home page, but not my server.

This is inhibiting. I've been trying to figure this out, and going everywhere for help, for the past week. Can anyone here shed some light?

>>1
First, you're a douchebag dipshit for using FTP for external file transfers and not SCP.  You're a fucking moronic bastard.

Also, if you want me to try to solve your stupid problem, can you tell if me the Wifi is your local, in home Wifi, or wifi from an external place.  If it's in your house, your server is still listening on 8080, but OUTSIDE of your GODDAMN network, THAT is when you'll have to use 80.  Your 3g phone is OUTSIDE of your network unless it's on Wifi.

>>2
You're a motherfucking herpes ridden pus-filled cunt for not realizing that FreeNAS relies on BSD and not Linux.  BSD uses pf, not iptables, you fucking lardassed shithead.