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So that's the reason you don't like `my' term!
I `came up' with it because I saw someone on /jp/ using it. It is accurate enough, as perfect breasts are precisely that, nugget-sized fat balls. I know "nugget-sized" is unscientific and mostly subjective, so here's a sample: http://i.imgur.com/AfuAZ6c.png
That size or something a tad smaller is perfect.
Also, I'm sorry to hear about your story, though. I only saw real gore in the old /b/.