Where to start

I'm still (very) new to programming, learning java and python atm. Howrver there is one thing I totally fail at: starting a code. I never know how I should start a code. How should I know I am supposed to use this argument and make an ArrayList etc.. So how do you guys know how to start a code? Should I just continue learning becase my skill level is too low, or are there some hints and tips?

Some guys who likes C: "Start with C."
Some guys who likes D: "Start with D."
Some guys who likes C++: "Start with C++."
Some guys who likes Lisp: "Start with Lisp."
Some guys who likes Python: "Start with Python."
Some guys who likes Haskell: "Start with just the head of the penis, then each week as your anus becomes more flexible, work your way down each inch of the shaft."