C++ halp =/

HAI
I'm learning some C++ and last night wrote this:

#include <iostream>
using namespace std;

int main()
{
    char gender[30];
    char fname[50];
    char sname[50];
    char hate[30];
    char wep[30];
    char hobby[50];
   
    cout<<"Please do not use spaces in your answer, it will mess up the program due to bad writing =/ "<<endl;
    cout<<endl;
    /* Yes I'm rubbish ok? */
    cout<<"Please enter either he/she, according to your gender: ";
    cin>> gender;
    cin.ignore();
    cout<<"And what is your first name?: ";
    cin>> fname;
    cout<<"Well hello there, "<< fname <<"! What is your surname?: ";
    cin>> sname;
    cin.ignore();
    cout<<"Thanks. So far you have told me that you are a "<< gender <<", and your name is "<< fname <<" "<< sname <<"."<<endl;
    cout<<endl;
    cout<<"What is the one thing you hate most?: ";
    cin>> hate;
    cin.ignore();
    cout<<"What is your weapon of choice?: ";
    cin>> wep;
    cin.ignore();
    cout<<"What is your favourite hobby/pastime?: ";
    cin>> hobby;
    cin.ignore();
    cout<<endl;
    cout<<"Ok, let's begin our story..."<<endl;
    cout<<endl;
    cout<<endl;
    cout<<""<< fname <<" "<< sname <<" thought "<< gender <<"'d take a break from "<< hobby <<"."<<endl;
    cout<<""<< gender <<" decided to rid the world of all traces of "<< hate <<", once and for all."<<endl;
    cout<<"So, brandishing a "<< wep <<", "<< gender <<" set off to seek out and destroy "<< hate <<"..."<<endl;
    cout<<"But "<< gender <<" died on the mission and "<< hate <<" remained forever more."<<endl;
    cout<<"Poor "<< fname <<", "<< gender <<" should have stuck with "<< hobby <<"."<<endl;
    cin.get();
   
    return 0;
}

As you can see, I'm a total n00b with only a basic knowledge of int, float and char. I was wondering which type i could use so that you choose one of 2 options, and most importantly, how I could allow spaces to be used in input without messing up how the program remembers it. Tried google but failed.

>>1
char gender[30];

FAIL