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Personally, Brown v. Topeka is an apt case to site. Save for whatever states are currently allowing gay marriages, the best homosexuals can achieve is a civil union, where they are allowed some but not all of the privileges and protections as spouses under the law. Not quite trying to be separate and equal, but close enough to fall under the auspices thereof.
Like I said, marriage is a concept that people do not want sullied by homosexuality, despite how moronic that appears. I was raised Catholic for 16 years, it didn't stick. However, I have grown up with the idea that being married in the church was a privilege, and that one should abide by the rules the church has set for that procedure. What the church itself does is a separate matter of discussion, for anyone thinking about the irony of them disparaging gays whilst the priests molest boys.
Just as I do not take Communion because I am not a faithful Catholic, I feel it would be wrong for gays to wed in the church against the doctrines the church has put forth. Not just for Catholicism, by the way, essentially all of Judeo-Christianity has some mention of frowning upon homosexuality.
Regardless, as long as the bulk of American society believes that marriage is still sacrosanct to the point that homosexuals would ruin the very foundations of the institution, nothing will be done.