Communism and Captialism are equal

I came to this realization of this by deconstructing the ideas of Socialism. I came to the conclusion that both can be bad or good, but it depends on who's hands it is in. If the person who is head of a company or a head of nation cares about people, and not power, then the little man will be happy.If the person wants power, than the little man will suffer. This is true in either cases of government.

so you're saying because collectivity is not a big rock thay says "this is collectivity, look at me and touch me" it is not real, therefore of no importance and should be disregarded?