Hi, I am a 20 year old lesbian... I have had bad luck these past few months with finding a partner. I'm starting to wonder If I am lacking game. Is my personality bland? Is it my style? My dad doesn't think it's any of that mattter. I went to the local gay club (to check out the scene) and a woman approached me (in her mid 20's) and asked me to dance... I was soo nervous that I ended up leaving. I was hystarical driving back home.