Name: ushinawa reta 2010-09-24 2:49
im currently in a relationship with a girl for about a year now. lately shes been talking to her "friend" that shes known since elementary. shes flown out to see him twice (hes stationed out in north carolina) and she talks to him on the phone every night. it seems as if shes makes an effort to talk to him everyday but when i talk with her she gives me phrases and one word answers. she says she loves me but i dont feel as if she really does. IMO, she doesnt go out of her way to make sure im happy while i always do my best to make sure shes happy. i do my best to take care of her the way i know how and she says she appreciates it. but everytime i go out of my way to do something for her, i come back to her talking on this phone with this dude. im at a point where i dont know what to do. i feel like she has my whole attention, while i dont have her attention at all. do i leave or do i go?