Advice please

I would like a little advice from you; I’ve just had a rather interesting conversation with my 14 year old cousin on Facebook. (Me and her have a very good relationship and she trusts to tell me anything) For which she explained to me that she went to her friends wedding and slept with her friends’ brother in a double bed back at the hotel.

Now I assume you can guess where this is going.

Now they didn't actually do any proper penetrative sex but only oral. (Him on her, her on him) This was only because he didn't have a condom.

Now how am I supposed to react to this. I’ve told her that she’s already given me a tad too much detail on the whole thing and that she’s making me bring up my breakfast. Like “He came in my mouth and it made me feel sick” and “he licked me out and the bed was squeaky”

What is /lounge/’s opinion on 14 year olds having promiscuous sex?

God damn you are all pussies.

You act like 14 is such a bad age, yet when I was in school I knew perfectly normal 12 year olds who were having sex. Is it wrong, no, because it's a crime of passion (victimless crime basically). It's their right to fuck, and it doesn't make them whores at all just for exploring sexuality. If this girl is a very bright girl who you can tell has a future ahead of her, why should she be labeled a whore just because she fucked a dude?