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That's good that your shyness showed up once again.
You shouldn't just assume not to look in her eyes.
It's sexy when you look into a woman's eyes.
But I would stress one thing...the moment you think you know and you look into her eyes, you will automatically judge yourself and that is your shyness.
Instead of stopping there, I would have you question what you are knowing as you look in her eyes, put on the face of inquiry, be curious as to the nature of who she is. She is your eternal mystery, your sister, your lover. Is she an eternal mystery? Is she your sister? Is she your lover? Do you see it yet?
When you look at her, look at her with inquiry and you will be looking at her with the eyes of innocence as she secretly desires to be seen AS innocent. If you look at her thinking or knowing something, you are secretly judging and this shows not just in your body-language, but your eyes; and judgment is secretly what she detests the most.
She longs to be both good and evil without being labeled one, the other or both.
You have to seek security within insecurity. You have to know that you don't know and be alright with that, yet still try to find out!
In science, it's known as the uncertainty principle. Find your comfort in not having to know before you find out. Do this and I'll give you my 10 steps to sexual bliss with any woman. Guaranteed.
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