Name: Anonymous 2010-05-09 10:27
When you got out with people to a restaurant (I know some of you have no friends, but may go out to eat with family, etc) do you ever go out to eat with vegetarians? I do. My father is vegetarian, also some other guys I know, if we go out, some will only order vegetarian dishes because they are vegetarian.
I'm not vegetarian, but I never double-dip into the vegetarian's dishes or banquet, simply because I respect the fact that the vegetarian dish is all they will or can eat. They cannot eat from the meat dish like I do, they only have a more limited option of what they can eat from, and I respect that, and let them eat from what they can, and I eat what I can without taking away from the vegetarian dish.
You see the 4chan male is the vegetarian of the social world, and the high status men/good looking men/bad boys are the meat-eaters. But this is where they disrespect. They know they can,and will eat from both their dish and yours (women). They don't respect the fact that you have a more limited option of what you can eat from. Nor do they respect the fact that we have the same appetite level as they do. They eat whatever they feel like, and if it means taking from your vege banquet and leaving you with less, yet at the same time eating from their own meat banquet, which you as the vegetarian can't eat from, they do it. Leave a substantial amount of food that I can only eat on my plate, without double dipping from yours into mine when I can't do likewise.
This is what is happening to our selection pool of women. Those high status men/good looking men/bad boys are dipping into our available pool of women in our range, and yet we cannot dip into their pool because the women in the upper pool that the high status men/good looking men/bad boys can dip into won't let because we're not good enough.
I heard my father talking about this with my mother today, when I went over to visit her for mother's day. He was pissed off when they went out for dinner last night with some friends that this happened to him, and he is a vegetarian and they ate from his platter, but he couldn't do the same from their platter.
Just thought about this analogy for a while after I heard my dad's story, and how it can relate to the social *food chain*
I'm not vegetarian, but I never double-dip into the vegetarian's dishes or banquet, simply because I respect the fact that the vegetarian dish is all they will or can eat. They cannot eat from the meat dish like I do, they only have a more limited option of what they can eat from, and I respect that, and let them eat from what they can, and I eat what I can without taking away from the vegetarian dish.
You see the 4chan male is the vegetarian of the social world, and the high status men/good looking men/bad boys are the meat-eaters. But this is where they disrespect. They know they can,and will eat from both their dish and yours (women). They don't respect the fact that you have a more limited option of what you can eat from. Nor do they respect the fact that we have the same appetite level as they do. They eat whatever they feel like, and if it means taking from your vege banquet and leaving you with less, yet at the same time eating from their own meat banquet, which you as the vegetarian can't eat from, they do it. Leave a substantial amount of food that I can only eat on my plate, without double dipping from yours into mine when I can't do likewise.
This is what is happening to our selection pool of women. Those high status men/good looking men/bad boys are dipping into our available pool of women in our range, and yet we cannot dip into their pool because the women in the upper pool that the high status men/good looking men/bad boys can dip into won't let because we're not good enough.
I heard my father talking about this with my mother today, when I went over to visit her for mother's day. He was pissed off when they went out for dinner last night with some friends that this happened to him, and he is a vegetarian and they ate from his platter, but he couldn't do the same from their platter.
Just thought about this analogy for a while after I heard my dad's story, and how it can relate to the social *food chain*