Could not penetrate!

I am 23 years old and still a virgin. For the first time last night I attempted to have intercourse with my wife. We just got married day before yesterday. And I failed miserably! I didnt know what the hell I was doing!


I have a penis which is below average size. Its 4 inches when erect. I am starting to feel the size of my penis is an issue.

When I tried inserting the penis into her vagina, I could feel it was going inside somewhere. But my wife said it wasnt! I cant figure out where I was inserting it!

I'd like to know how deep inside is the vagina located? And please let me know what I am doing wrong.

Regards,
-- SK

PS: My wife is also a virgin

I am not familiar with the female anatomy but its possible I was between the outer lips. What I forgot to mention in my previous post is that, I could feel a wall. And when I tried thrusting my penis against that wall, she complaint it was hurting. By then I started experiencing anxiety and lost my erection. Later after a while I asked her to sit on top and again, the same thing. It went inside somewhere and I could feel a wall. But at that time my erection had become weak and pretty much useless. So there wasnt much she could do. I am confident if I were able to maintain an strong erection at that time, she could have managed to insert it inside.

Now the questions, was that wall the opening of the vagina? How deep from there would the hymen be located? How much pressure would I need to apply over there? If she is on top of me and in control, do you guys reckon she would be able manage it?


I want to be fully educated the next time I attempt so that I dont get confused and experience anxiety. We are going to try again tommorow night.